well i guess it would be a little of everything.... its quite easier for myself to be in another relationship; not that its a bad one.... however its been easier for me to forget about hub as there hasnt really been any closure.... on both of our parts... so i guess its just easier to create new memories with someone else than it is to forget old memories.... god i hope i make sense....
Think about this Godiva.....what would it take for you to feel the marriage was over and you had the closure you needed to move on without looking back?
Mine would be when my wife and I separated for almost 1/2 a year. One of the roughest times in my life. Fortunately we were able to work things out and get back together.
I'm glad for you Evil, in this day and age it's much easier to walk away for many people rather than work it out. You my friend are a statistic anomaly.
My hardest breakup was detaching my fat little mits from my mother's apron strings. But seriously, including what I said in my previous post regarding this, I've been very fortunate thus far, hopefully it'll stay that way.