No Contact

Stone · 03-03-2005, 11:58 AM

Who would have guessed I would have started the 1st LifeSupporters NO CONTACNT thread :?

Greg and I have been TRYING to work things out but it's not working. I went in to the hospital last night for Emergency Oral Surgery with NO FRIGGIN DRUGS because I am pregnant and I am in MAJOR pain. And Mr Gregster was supposed to help with Noah but found himself accidently at a bar untill 1am!!

So I am done, moving in with my mother today and will start NO CONTACT. I don't know why NO CONTACT is so hard but I'm doing it and not buding. I am also not runnig his business anymore so he'll have to deal with it ( It will fail)

I am very scared, I guess I am scared to be alone. but I've really had it.

darkangelism · 03-03-2005, 12:07 PM

im sorry to hear that. I think for now this is the best choice, unfortunatly, you cant keep no contact once ally is born.

What he did last night is not responsible, it shows that maybe he cant handle the responsibility in a tough situation.

We support your decision

Merika · 03-03-2005, 12:49 PM

Well....if you want to get over someone.....No Contact is certainly the best way to do it. Your situation is a little more muddles though...since you are pregnant with his baby. There has to be SOME communication lines open.

I told you not to tell them you were preggers or they wouldn't give you anything for the pain!!! Surely there is something on the market which is safe for pregnant women. Probably the pregnancy, due to drain of calcium from your body, is causing the problem in the first place. I sure wish there was something someone could do to help you with that.

Maybe this information will interest you: http://users.hol.gr/~jelian/articles/Pregnancy.htm

As far as Greg....just ignore him a few days and he'll snap out of it.

Duke · 03-03-2005, 03:20 PM

Unfortunately the "no contact" thing prolly won't work because he has rights as the babies father. The best thing you can do is close your heart to him romantically and move on with your life. I think you've been through enough self doubt and questioning your actions now, it's obvious he's a large part of the problem so you can start re-building your life with a clear conscience.

twinkle · 03-04-2005, 01:21 AM

They must be freaking crazy!!! No pain for oral Surgery??? OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you allright? Oh, Heather... listen to your instinct. Go live with your mom and see what's gonna happen next.

You don't have to see Greg at least untill you have your baby. An there are a few months until then. Remember that you don't have to have an answer to everything. Just to your mom's place and have a few days on your own until you figure it out.

Bug hug,

Twinkle

Duke · 03-04-2005, 01:27 AM

What's a bug hug?

darkangelism · 03-04-2005, 02:40 AM

i think its a 4 armed hug.

Duke · 03-04-2005, 04:01 AM

Sometimes I wish I had four arms, not to be confused with forearms.

twinkle · 03-04-2005, 06:10 AM

You don't have this joke in English? It's a big hug, because the bug has many many arms, yet it's soft, beacause bugs arms are fragile.

Little girls are all crazy about bug hugs, LOOL!!!

Stone · 03-04-2005, 08:25 AM

It's Greg's B Day/ our 3 yr anniversery today..

What should I do ?? Should I just leave a card at the house or ignore the fact.

Merika · 03-04-2005, 09:09 AM

That's a hard call SH. I guess it depends on whether you are just mad at him for a period of time....or you really feel it is over for good. IF you think you guys might patch it up....ignoring his birthday and the anniversary....may not be a good thing. If you don't care.....then dump it and don't worry about it.

Stone · 03-04-2005, 09:14 AM

i don't care about the anniversery part, I think I am just going to get a card and a small gift from Noah and drop it by the house on my lunch break that way I won't see him..

my girlfriend thinks I should buy him a bottle of Wisky with a card saying " You ended your faimly for the bottle now drink yourself into a hole" LMAO but I can't do that.

Star · 03-04-2005, 10:11 AM

I wouldn't know what to do either if it were me. I'm too soft hearted that I always end up doing the stupid thing when it comes to stuff like this (in the past before hubby).

I think giving him a b-day card from noah is a good idea. this way you're letting him know that he can still be in the kid's lives without having you in his; if that's what you want to do of course.

I think you and greg have a love/hate relationship. Those are the hardest ones to end or to keep going. I think you staying at your mom's is a good idea until the baby is born at least. That way you can clear your head and do some thinking about things. and he'd be able to prove himself to you if he truly wants to work things out. sometimes a seperation is the best thing for a relationship; even it means there's a break up in the end.

Duke · 03-04-2005, 11:30 AM

If you don't feel like celebrating his birthday then don't. I wouldn't worry about it at all personally. I do know that it will drive the message home of how you're feeling toward him if you were to ignore the birthday.

In fact, the more I think about it I'd just ignore the birthday entirely. At this point, what have you got to lose?

twinkle · 03-04-2005, 11:41 AM

It's very dan