How often do you talk / think about breakig up with your SO?

twinkle · 11-21-2004, 03:26 AM

That's a funny subject.

Me... at least once a month, as a general rule. We love eachother, I think, but we're both hard-cases,LOOL.

Last time we had a raw, I sent him via postal services most of the stuff he had at my place. Boy, was I angry :evil: !!!

How about you?

Merika · 11-22-2004, 09:17 AM

Once I've decided to break up with someone....and then I've cave in and let it slide....I've ended up regretting it. Since then, I've found to go with my first gut feeling. When it's over it's over.

Could be why I'm single and will probably stay that way!

Stone · 11-22-2004, 10:09 AM

I threaten to break up with my b/f at least once a week, I don't thik I really mean it, I think I am just a mean Bit@h.

If he ever took me seriously and left I would be verry sad, I don't know why I do this either, maby I need a shrink

Merika · 11-22-2004, 10:15 AM

Turn that around though....
If the guy you were with constantly did that.....threatened a break up....it would make you feel very insecure with the relationship OR he would threaten it so much until you no longer took him seriously until it was too late.

Men have feelings too.....bwahahahaha! 8)

Stone · 11-22-2004, 10:18 AM

I know I need to stop, I am a meanie. Men are just so agrivating sometimes I guess the saying is right. Can't live with em can't live without em. ( That can go both ways to )

Merika · 11-22-2004, 10:24 AM

Is it possible that the only way you have of controlling the situation is by having the power to manipulate him through his fear of you leaving him?

Star · 11-22-2004, 04:11 PM

I think about that only when he really does something that ticks me off which doesn't happen too often.

Duke · 11-22-2004, 11:38 PM

On average, I think about breaking up with my significant other at least once or twice a week.

Merika · 11-23-2004, 12:17 PM

Really Duke? Is that just due to the fear of intimacy or committment?

Stone · 11-23-2004, 02:19 PM

jeeze Merika you are very good at asking just the write questions on this thread

I feel like you should send me a bill HAHA ( I need therapy :doh: )

twinkle · 11-23-2004, 03:40 PM

Wow, now I feel better!!!

Once or twice a week is quite a record. I was there at the beggining of my relationship with him. Now when it gets really bad, I simply think about leaving the country, LOOL!!!

I read a great short story about a man who wanted to marry himself. So, if you're single and feel like taking a break from yourself... most people I know do, whether they realise or not... Me first!

Duke · 11-23-2004, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Merika

Really Duke? Is that just due to the fear of intimacy or committment?

I'm not really sure what the actual reason is. I think it has a lot to do with my belief that if it's right, then a relationship shouldn't be lots of work. I think there is give and take but I hate being either a father or a dartboard to a grown woman.