Have you ever sabotaged a relationship?

Duke · 11-03-2004, 12:34 AM

I know I have just because I felt it was easier to make her want to leave than to break her heart by telling her it was over.

Merika · 11-03-2004, 01:53 PM

I've done it subconsciously in every relationship I've ever been in. I wonder if there's some psychlogical reason or if it just signifies I'm dysfunctional. LOL!

Duke · 11-03-2004, 07:07 PM

I think it just means you'd rather be alone. Either that or you have a deep fear of commitment, or you can't stand sharing.

Merika · 11-04-2004, 12:58 PM

I don't commit OR share well.

I read this on the internet: I find no end of amusement at the fact that to be "committed" means BOTH "to be involved in a serious relationship" and "to become a patient at a mental hospital." LOL!

I wonder what makes some people need a relationship in their life while others, such as myself, don't seem to care.

Meanon · 11-04-2004, 08:00 PM

HA! Well, love is a kind of insanity.

I've never consciously sabotaged a relationship. I'm not sure that it would be easier for the person on the receiving end to slowly have their love extinguished than for them to hear that it's over. Many people need to understand the reason why a relationship has ended in order to accept it and let it go. If you can end it well then at least you are left with happy memories.

I don't need a relationship in my life but I am happier when I love and am loved in return.

Duke · 11-04-2004, 08:06 PM

You are loved Meanon, by all of us

Stone · 11-04-2004, 08:23 PM

I usually nap men to death :?

Duke · 11-04-2004, 08:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stoneheather

I usually nap men to death :?

I'm not exactly sure what that means :?

Stone · 11-04-2004, 09:07 PM

ooops ( forgot to refill my head today) I meant nag men to death

Duke · 11-04-2004, 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stoneheather

ooops ( forgot to refill my head today) I meant nag men to death

You're hilarious

Merika · 11-05-2004, 09:48 AM

I have to admit....I'm a ninny when it comes to breaking up with someone!
I'm not even good at turning down guys for a date. I tell them to call me back about it the next day and then I just avoid the phone for a long time.

Stone · 11-05-2004, 09:49 AM

Not me I am a mean lady, I break up with Greg every day! LOL

Duke · 11-05-2004, 08:04 PM

He prolly prefers it that way Witch Hazel.

Merika · 11-08-2004, 03:32 PM

Stoneheather will have to be NICER....now that she has to fly TWO on her broom! HAHAHA!

Stone · 11-08-2004, 03:40 PM

i know

I am really mean to men I am dating I have always been this way, I don't know why I guess there is some deeper issues I need to find or I just have to wear the pants and need to stop that..

I am a Total Witch to Greg, he doesn't really deserve it

twinkle · 11-08-2004, 04:41 PM

You must do something good, or else he wouldn't be with you, :evilin:

Duke · 11-08-2004, 07:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by twinkle

You must do something good, or else he wouldn't be with you, :evilin:

That's exactly what I was thinking lol.

Merika · 11-08-2004, 11:45 PM

Everytime Twinkle posts....I'm left having to leave a

for a reply!

HAHAHA!

Duke · 11-09-2004, 09:47 AM

I had to watch how I replied myself lol.

I'm glad that twinkle is here, I can only hope she becomes a staple at Lifesupporters.

Merika · 11-09-2004, 10:21 AM

Yeah....every forum needs a 'Twinkle' and a 'Star'....or am I the only one who thought that was so cute?

Duke · 11-09-2004, 11:18 AM

glueeeeeeee

twinkle · 11-09-2004, 05:04 PM

Yeak, I twinkle for now... I only hope I won't turn into.... this :hellcow: !!!

I'm hooked, I confess

.

Duke · 11-09-2004, 05:28 PM

lol

twinkle · 11-09-2004, 08:09 PM

If I do, let's hope it'll be a pinata and you'll all get candies.

Duke · 11-09-2004, 08:18 PM

I like candy

11-03-2004, 12:34 AM	#1
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	Have you ever sabotaged a relationship? I know I have just because I felt it was easier to make her want to leave than to break her heart by telling her it was over. __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

11-03-2004, 07:07 PM	#3
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	I think it just means you'd rather be alone. Either that or you have a deep fear of commitment, or you can't stand sharing. __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

11-04-2004, 08:06 PM	#6
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	You are loved Meanon, by all of us __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

11-05-2004, 08:04 PM	#13
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	He prolly prefers it that way Witch Hazel. __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

11-09-2004, 09:47 AM	#19
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	I had to watch how I replied myself lol. I'm glad that twinkle is here, I can only hope she becomes a staple at Lifesupporters. __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

11-03-2004, 01:53 PM	#2
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 13,207	I've done it subconsciously in every relationship I've ever been in. I wonder if there's some psychlogical reason or if it just signifies I'm dysfunctional. LOL!

11-04-2004, 12:58 PM	#4
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 13,207	I don't commit OR share well. I read this on the internet: I find no end of amusement at the fact that to be "committed" means BOTH "to be involved in a serious relationship" and "to become a patient at a mental hospital." LOL! I wonder what makes some people need a relationship in their life while others, such as myself, don't seem to care.

11-04-2004, 08:00 PM	#5
Meanon Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,707	HA! Well, love is a kind of insanity. I've never consciously sabotaged a relationship. I'm not sure that it would be easier for the person on the receiving end to slowly have their love extinguished than for them to hear that it's over. Many people need to understand the reason why a relationship has ended in order to accept it and let it go. If you can end it well then at least you are left with happy memories. I don't need a relationship in my life but I am happier when I love and am loved in return.

11-04-2004, 08:23 PM	#7
Stone Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,862	I usually nap men to death :?

11-04-2004, 09:07 PM	#9
Stone Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,862	ooops ( forgot to refill my head today) I meant nag men to death

11-05-2004, 09:48 AM	#11
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 13,207	I have to admit....I'm a ninny when it comes to breaking up with someone! I'm not even good at turning down guys for a date. I tell them to call me back about it the next day and then I just avoid the phone for a long time.

11-05-2004, 09:49 AM	#12
Stone Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,862	Not me I am a mean lady, I break up with Greg every day! LOL

11-08-2004, 03:32 PM	#14
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 13,207	Stoneheather will have to be NICER....now that she has to fly TWO on her broom! HAHAHA!

11-08-2004, 03:40 PM	#15
Stone Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,862	i know I am really mean to men I am dating I have always been this way, I don't know why I guess there is some deeper issues I need to find or I just have to wear the pants and need to stop that.. I am a Total Witch to Greg, he doesn't really deserve it

11-08-2004, 04:41 PM	#16
twinkle Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,254	You must do something good, or else he wouldn't be with you, :evilin:

11-08-2004, 11:45 PM	#18
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 13,207	Everytime Twinkle posts....I'm left having to leave a for a reply! HAHAHA!

11-09-2004, 10:21 AM	#20
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 13,207	Yeah....every forum needs a 'Twinkle' and a 'Star'....or am I the only one who thought that was so cute?

11-09-2004, 11:18 AM	#21
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	glueeeeeeee __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

11-09-2004, 05:04 PM	#22
twinkle Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,254	Yeak, I twinkle for now... I only hope I won't turn into.... this :hellcow: !!! I'm hooked, I confess .

11-09-2004, 05:28 PM	#23
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	lol __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

11-09-2004, 08:09 PM	#24
twinkle Veteran Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,254	If I do, let's hope it'll be a pinata and you'll all get candies.

11-09-2004, 08:18 PM	#25
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 23,801	I like candy __________________ Help Support Us: Help us help you, every little bit counts. -$5/month- -$10/month--$15/month- My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticise someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticise them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

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