Getting your children through your divorce

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http://www.divorceinfo.com/children.htm

There's no question that divorce is awful for kids. Many divorcing parents are surprised, though, when they realize how much control they have over the way their children live through their divorce

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Sometimes a divorce is a good thing, if the marriage is just not working between the parents, despite all the attempts. Sometimes personalities are completely incompatible.

If parents resort to use kids as pawns (whether in the marriage, or in divorce), divorces will tend to have a dramatic impact on the kids.