The drama continues!

Stone · 01-29-2005, 01:42 PM

I swear it never ends with me, I could write a novel! but Greg is moving out ASAP and I am alone once again.

It all started after I was hormonal again and we started screaming at eachother, he yelled at me in front of my son so I FLIPPED THE HECK OUT took my son to the neighbors and gave him the fight he was looking for. I got in his face and threw a chair at him after he told me that he didn't want the baby, he never did and I should have gotten an abortion, now it's to late and I ruined both our lives!! Wrong thing to say to a pregnant woman. after this was going on I wouldn't leave I begged and begged him to get out of the house he refused so I took his clothes and threw them in the canal... after I got done with the 1st batch he decided he should go... SO it's over, I am relieved, and upset but more so relieved and single probably for several years.

darkangelism · 01-29-2005, 01:49 PM

ohhhh, i dont know whether to be happy or sad for you, but i do think that things will work themselves out for you, we are here for you if you need it.

Star · 01-29-2005, 03:25 PM

I'm sorry to hear that SH. He wasn't very nice nor respectful IMO to throw the unborn baby in your face like he did. If he didn't want the baby, then he should've told you that in the beginning. Now now.

Perhaps this will be better for you and your son. Even if it is only for a little while. Sometimes all a person needs is space and time to think about things to get to the place they should be.

You know we're all here for you if you need a shoulder or an ear.

Meanon · 01-29-2005, 05:48 PM

That's horrid Heather.

Hugs to you.

You KNOW what I'm going to say

. That memory problem was a warning. Please try and keep that blood pressure down. Your health is the most important thing right now. Take care of yourself and your son. You've got a lot going for you, you're a strong woman. Things will work out fine, with or without Greg.

Duke · 01-29-2005, 07:34 PM

I'm sorry to hear the way it happened SH but it's no suprise that it did happen or that it happened as ugly as it did. Unfortunately you've both been on this collision course for some time now and all it takes is two flaring tempers to make the bomb explode.

I am very sorry it happened but I do believe it's for the best, not only for you but for your unborn child. If you need anyone to talk to you know we'll always be here for you.

Sincerely.

Merika · 01-30-2005, 11:56 AM

I realize you are between a rock and a hard place on this one SH. I've tried to think what I would do in your position.....and quite frankly....there are no easy way out. You've got a lot of responsibilites and have to chose if it's better to go it alone or try to work things out with the AssClown - formerly known as Greg.

It's hard rasing kids alone....but it can be done. The money is usually tight, the responsibilites feel overwhelming and it seems like a long lonely road sometimes.....but it's better than being with someone who makes you miserable. Kids shouldn't have to grow up in the turmoil of a bad relatioship. It's better to have less assets and more peace.

Would you have to find another job or move if you put him out of your life?

Samson · 01-30-2005, 01:36 PM

Heather, Heather, Heather.....

It probably only seems as if things have ended. Frankly, I've my doubts. THe situation's a bit more complicated and running the guy off today probably will not have a longer term effect. But, time will tell. In the meantime don't blame yourself. I say this because it sounds as if you may;

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It all started after I was hormonal again and we started screaming at eachother

Not sure how anyone was supposed to know about a hormone condition beginning, but it does't you should take all the responsability for starting it.

Duke · 01-30-2005, 02:45 PM

I'm packing my bags tonite to take care of you SH

Stone · 01-30-2005, 06:30 PM

Thanks Duke

Samson · 01-30-2005, 08:10 PM

Jeez,

If that's all it takes to make you happier, then I'll pack my bags too...........it a shorter flight from where I am!

Duke · 01-30-2005, 09:02 PM

np SH

Meanon · 01-31-2005, 08:20 AM

Pregnancy is one long hormone condition. Buckle in for the ride, SH

Duke · 01-31-2005, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Meanon

Pregnancy is one long hormone condition. Buckle in for the ride, SH

so is being a woman in general

Merika · 02-01-2005, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Duke

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Originally Posted by Meanon

Pregnancy is one long hormone condition. Buckle in for the ride, SH

so is being a woman in general

Whereas, men are just BOOBS with NO real reason!! LOL!

Samson · 02-01-2005, 12:47 PM

Isn't this one of our many charming traits?

It also allows females to easily take advantage of us!