Do-Overs

Merika · 02-22-2005, 08:10 AM

How many times are you willing to give a relationship a second-third-fourth-etc chance? Generally with me....once someone has blown it....it's over. I'm not advocating it's the best choice. However, I have found it works for me.

Stone · 02-22-2005, 09:19 AM

Noah's dad I gave a million chances to, Greg has skrewed up REALLY bad twice, I am not sur if he will get a 3rd chance.

Star · 02-22-2005, 09:44 AM

I've had a few realationships where I'd try 2 or 3 times. After the 3rd time though, that's it for me.

Merika · 02-22-2005, 09:46 AM

I guess it should depend on what the 'offense' was and how much it hurt you.

Star · 02-22-2005, 03:40 PM

i think it would have to be the severety of the offense. if I got cheated on, there would be no second chance.

Duke · 02-22-2005, 09:04 PM

I've allowed the relationship a few chances in my mind but my heart usually seems to have a different opinion on the matter.

Merika · 02-23-2005, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Duke

I've allowed the relationship a few chances in my mind but my heart usually seems to have a different opinion on the matter.

Mine would be the other way around. My heart may still say yes....but my mind tells me to run away like it was the plague. BTW: My mind is always right....but my heart has been a little goofy from time to time. LOL!

Duke · 02-23-2005, 07:47 PM

Your mind is always right, roflmao

Merika · 02-24-2005, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Duke

Your mind is always right, roflmao

I'm a GENIOUS in my own mind....DAMMIT! It's my heart which is so retarded.

Samson · 02-24-2005, 11:26 AM

Now all we need to do is figure out how your other organs are affecting your behavior!

Merika · 02-24-2005, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Samson

Now all we need to do is figure out how your other organs are affecting your behavior!

Responding in much missed Arabess' style...... my organs are in submission to the head. hehehehe!

Duke · 02-24-2005, 11:41 PM

Including the brain.

Luba · 11-12-2006, 12:37 PM

I think I can forgive almost anything except infidelity.

Vautrin · 11-12-2006, 12:53 PM

But some people consider even thinking of someone as a form of infidelity. Where do you draw the line?

Luba · 11-12-2006, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Vautrin

But some people consider even thinking of someone as a form of infidelity. Where do you draw the line?

The ACTUAL infidelity would do me in

Vautrin · 11-12-2006, 01:02 PM

I tend to stick to a one-opportunity rule in case of major screw ups. Other than those major screw ups, I tend to be quite forgiving, and trying.