day 50 14th wedding anniversary

[lewsterrett]

Tomorrow is our 14th wedding anniversary. Should i send her flowers, an email or phone call? We have been separated for 50 days. Any thoughts?

[Fireblade]

I personally say flowers, it tells her you still think of her without being too over bearing..

An email or a phone call is over bearing. Women are weird like that.. You may have slept with her for the last 14+ years however once you break up ... everything suddenly changes.

But, I don't know either of you so I'm just talking out my ass, ignore me

[TKDLady]

If I it was me and I left my husband I would prefer he not even mention it. If I left and I wasn't making any effort to get back with my husband then the last thing I want is to be reminded of our wedding day. Now if she has expressed an interest in getting back with you then maybe a nice phone call to let her know you are thinking of her and about the specialness of the day. These are just my opinion. I don't know what the atmosphere is between your wife and you. If you feel like she is coming around let her know you still care and I think a phone call would be better for that. If she doesn't appear to be changing her mind then, in my opinion, anything you do to remind her of that day will make her feel pressured to feel something she may not feel anymore which could turn to resentment.

[lewsterrett]

YouTube - Mike & The Mechanics - All I Need Is A Miracle

All I need is a miracle- Mike and the Mechanics


I said go if you wanna go,
Stay if you wanna stay
I didnt care if you hung around me
I didnt care if you went away
And I know you were never right
Ill admit I was never wrong
I could never make up my mind
I made it up as I went along

And although I treated you like a child
Im gonna miss you for the rest of my life

All I need is a miracle, all I need is you
All I need is a miracle, all I need is you
All I need is a miracle, all I need is you

I never had any time
And I never had any call
But I went out of my way just to hurt you,
The one I shouldnt hurt at all
I thought I was being cool
Yeah, I thought I was being strong
But its always the same old story
You never know what youve got til its gone

If I ever catch up with you
Im gonna love you for the rest of your life

All I need is a miracle, all I need is you (all I need is a miracle)
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All I need is a miracle, all I need is you

And if I ever catch up with you
Im gonna love you for the rest of your life

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[Luba]

What a wonderful thing to do to your in-laws! What an amazing Gift of thanks! I have never heard of that before! Amazing, a-ma-zing!

[lewsterrett]

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[PepsiChic]

i dont think we've heard from lewsterrett for a while, i just wanted to say i hope your doing ok and my thoughts are with you

[Meanon]

Mine too