Arse Kissing

Stone · 06-01-2005, 01:24 PM

Humph never fails chase a man they run away fast ignore them and they chase you.

Ever since I bet the crap out of greg ( smart one I know :roll: ) he has been totally kissing my arse, he did on vacation witch I accepted becasue it was a vacation and now I have been sleeping on the coutch for about 5 days and he can't stand it 8O , I don't call him, make him dinner or do anything I just hang out with my friends and go to the gym. I don't nag about his drinking or going to the bar and I told him to go to counceling alone because I am no longer intrested in presuing a relationship and made arangements to keep " co existing/ living togeather" untill september.

Now he has offered to buy me a new Mercades, send me to the spa, he has brought me flowers for the past 3 days and he has taken Noah when he gets home to play B Ball or the movies or something. He is freaking out because he knows I've had it and there is no chance.

I know it is mean but I am loving watching him squirm like a little confused puppy. I am enjoying his desperation. ( maby I'm sick) he has treated me like complete crap becasue I was pregnant and he knew I was stuck NOW that I will have a baby in less than a month he knows dammed well, I can go get someone else, I will go back to work and not need his punk arse anymore.... What goes around comes around and he hates it :?

I feel mean by enjoying watching him jump thru hoops for me but he really hurt me I want him to suffer... maby I am a she devil :evil:

twinkle · 06-01-2005, 01:27 PM

HEather, one sentence for you: MAKE. HIM.BEG!!! And go to the spa 8) !

Merika · 06-01-2005, 01:30 PM

Maybe with you getting so upset about him coming home late...was a sign to him that you really do care about him.

Duke · 06-01-2005, 03:40 PM

Take the car and still give him the b00t.

Stone · 06-01-2005, 05:41 PM

I won't take the car, he will just end up financing it in his name or the company name and when I leave him it will just be somthing for him to take away..... he is a sick focker

Duke · 06-02-2005, 12:01 AM

Well then get something that doesn't need financing, I say take a little advantage of it while you can. Just don't be fooled into thinking he's changed, I think you know the truth of that matter.

Merika · 06-02-2005, 07:51 AM

I agree with Duke....try to use this time to build yourself a little nest egg off to the side. Then when he acts like a jerk again...you've got something to fall back on. Charge him $100 for groceries....but only use $75...and put away $25. In your situation....it's the only way you'll have any security to fall back on.

Star · 06-02-2005, 04:48 PM

that's a very good idea in fact, every woman in any relationship should put some money aside for herself. I do all the time. I tell gerry I need so much money for the bills and add a couple hundred dollars. that way i always have money so if i need or want something, i can go get it or if an emergency comes up, i at least have money to take care of it with.

I would put that money away and save it for when you decide to leave him. You can save a nice amount of money if you start doing that now stone.

Duke · 06-04-2005, 01:16 PM

You've got the tools stone, now do you have the stones to do it?

I say plan for the best but prepare for the worst.