The truth comes out tomarrow

Stone · 12-02-2004, 10:37 AM

Tomarrow I get my ultrasound. to find out exactly how pregnant I am and I also find out the "date of conception" witch is VERY IMPORTANT because Greg and I we're broken up in September

and I did something stupid...I slept with someone else, we didn't "finsih" and we did wear a condom but it's still freaking me out... I haven't said anything to Greg about it because technically we wern't togeather and I am not fighting about this for the rest of our lives. I am just praying I gor pregnant in October not September, because the Drama will continue

Theres always more to the story huh I swear I am a friggin soap opera

Meanon · 12-02-2004, 04:57 PM

Dating scans are not that accurate. Are you going alone? Try and talk to them about the margin of error with the dates. If you need to check whose it is and it's early enough they can do a CVS to test the DNA.

Hang in there, stoneheather. It sounds like an accident was highly unlikely. Don't assume the worst when they give you the dates without checking it out with them first.

Stone · 12-02-2004, 06:44 PM

Fortunatly my doctor is my best friend. He said as to what I told him he is 99 % sure the baby is Gregs. ( I got apeirod after I slept with the other guy and took two pregnancy test after me and Gregs accident in October and they we're negitive) Yes I am going alone.

I guess in the end I truley know it is his, but for some reason it doesnt really matter, I am a fool to think that our relationship is going to work, he has made it clear that he doesn't want me to keep this pregnancy and I haven't told him aborting it was not going to be an option yet, I just want to be sure of the dates 1st. So as soon as I am done with this drama tomarrow, I can hopefully get confirmation of when I got pregnant and move on to the next battle with Greg. I have already accepted that I am a single mother so now I'll just be a single mother with 2... lots of lessons learned. and I will be getting my tubes tied :?

Duke · 12-02-2004, 07:24 PM

I'm going to build a whole new site around you Stoneheather, you have one interesting life

On a serious note, I'm sure it's your bf's. Good luck with the test, let us know how it turns out.

Stone · 12-02-2004, 07:33 PM

You can call it Heather's Weekly Drama. LOL

I know I love to tourcher myself
It's a bunch of friggin crap!!! I am a total drama queen if it wasn't for bad luck I would have none at all and I think I have made every single mistake known to man I should be an expert very soon

LOL..... maby one day it will run out and I will win the lottery HAHAHA

Duke · 12-02-2004, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Stoneheather

You can call it Heather's Weekly Drama. LOL

I know I love to tourcher myself
It's a bunch of friggin crap!!! I am a total drama queen if it wasn't for bad luck I would have none at all and I think I have made every single mistake known to man I should be an expert very soon

LOL..... maby one day it will run out and I will win the lottery HAHAHA

Your not the only one, I have tons of luck, too bad none of it's good.

Stone · 12-02-2004, 07:37 PM

Gotta turn good sooner or later

Duke · 12-02-2004, 07:40 PM

Ya, when I'm dead.

Stone · 12-02-2004, 07:42 PM

No probably the day before so we can't enjoy it..... LOL Huh I really need a beer today and the worst part is I can't have one for nine months.... Oh the horror!!

Duke · 12-02-2004, 07:51 PM

Ya at least I can drink, although I have no booze here, nyaaaaaaa!!!1111

Merika · 12-03-2004, 09:25 AM

Oh Gosh...I hadn't even thought about the liquor aspect!!! (I wasn't drinking at all in my life during the time I had my children.) That would be really TOUGH now!

I can't wait for the post to find out what happened on the test. Meanon is right though....there IS a margin of time error or at least 2 weeks regardless.

You did WHAT while you and Greg were broke up?? You BAD GIRL!

LOL!

Meanon · 12-03-2004, 11:54 AM

It really sounds like you are worrying unecessarily. You know, sometimes if you are really dreading facing the truth about something, it's easier to focus all your worries on something else. From the beginning it's the situation with Greg that's been the real worry. Things may work out, but you can't rely on him at a time when you should be able to. That's a word I can't say on a family forum, but you'll make it whatever you choose to do stoneheather.

I wish there was a way you could get enough support so you could take that job and give your new family a secure start.

Stone · 12-03-2004, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by "Merika"

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You did WHAT while you and Greg were broke up?? You BAD GIRL![/i]

LOL!

Hey I was drunk, newely single he was cute...... you know the rest :wink:

Stone · 12-03-2004, 03:07 PM

YOur always right meanon.... i am 7 1/2 weeks pregnat. There is no possible way this is the "other guys" child it is Gregs and I know exactly when it happened now.

I am going out to dinner with Greg tonight and we are discussing things, he brought it to my attention that I can take the RU-486 pill that will give me a miscarage if I choose, That makes me feel so supported...... I wish I could go back on vacation and really think about what I want, I wish I didn't tell the whole world I am pregnant, my mom's friends just gave me a crap load of maternity suites ect... everyones talking about it.

If I decide to keep the pregnancy and I probably will ( I saw the heart beating in there today.... and got my 1st maternial instinct twards this pregnancy) I am going to let him know that he is in no way shape or fourm obligated to me or this child unless it is something he wants to do by choice. I've never had any "insurance" with him due to his bi-polor disorder so I shouldn't expect him now. and he thinks I should talk to him more about our problems instead of a computer.... maby he's right... Anyways I'll keep you guys posted.