Is Your Heart or Your Gut Feeling the Leader

[Luba]

when meeting and feeling attracted to a person? When you lead with your heart, do you get hurt more often? Do you listen to your gut feeling and walk away?

[twinkle]

IT depends... a little bit of both. I am quite rational, so I don't get in situations that I cannot get out of, generally speaking. I am following my gut feeling and I am trying to do what's right. I don't get that much "fun" and certainly not as much as I could, but then I am not dying to be in the centre of the attention of men I don't know very well, no matter how attractive they are.

the way I act with men I actually am in a relationship with is a different story, but at least I am picky when chosing them.

[Meanon]

My instinct is usually sound. I follow it more often now-a-days and don't take the risks that used to, but my heart is so strong that once I get involved with someone I am usually totally led by it. Yes, I have been hurt more as a result. It's part of who I am, I've learned to accept it. I get the right balance for me, but it's taken several years for me to find it.

[Scott]

Gut feeling.

If I don't like you in the first 20 seconds, then life's too short to try liking you.

[Meanon]

How often do you dislike in the 1st 20 secs?

[Scott]

Originally Posted by Meanon

How often do you dislike in the 1st 20 secs?

Well, today, for example, I was probably around 2-3 people I'd never been around before. I didn't dislike any.

[Meanon]

Lol. Just checking!