Would you want to date......

[Merika]

yourself?

What are the good qualities or bad qualities you feel you bring into a relationship?

[Stone]

That's a great question!! though I must think about it more :? This will be a great thread!!

[Star]

good question and a hard one to answer! LOL!

I would most deffinately date myself if I were a man. I'm easy going, fun to be with, I have a good sense of humor, adventurous, caring, loving, understanding, trustworthy, respectful and compassionate.

the faults I have that wouldn't bee too great would be my short temper and moodiness once a month. That time of the month is not a good time to get on my nerves. LOL!

[Adonaicole]

Physically- No way, my body is all wrong, my chest is flat and I have no butt and I don't like muscular women...I like 'em nice and soft and curvy.
Intellectually- Yes, I'm up for all kinds of literary or political or philosophical discussions, just don't ask me to discuss sports teams.
Spiritually- I'm very grounded, I have an unshakable faith in God.
Financially- I wouldn't date me...nuff said!

Good qualities - I'm honest, try to be funny, generous, kind, optimistic, persistant.

Bad qualities- I don't have time for games or lies and will shine on anyone who does. I will always pick my family ahead of you...unless we're married and then you are my family.

[Vautrin]

Would I date myself / female version of myself? No!

I have a few great qualities, and a lot of defects.
I have a great memory, am quite intelligent, like to read and write. Very easy-going, and quite humorous if I am interested to be that. I don't value money highly.

I am not great in company, and avoid company a bit, as I am quite fond of being alone. I am highly chaotic, somewhat unorganized.

Dating me would be complete disaster.

[darkangelism]

yes, the girl i like is a lot like me except not depressed, but our personalities are similiar, we look similiar.

[dogula]

I'd probably get on my nerves and try to avoid myself.

[Stone]

Would I date myself... hummm depends. :oops:

I am loyal and easy to get along with, very affectionate, loving & confident. I am committed to making a "faimly" work but I have alot of bad qualities as well I am needy, jellous, I need constant attention both emotional and psychial and can sometimes be very spoiled and Bitchy but at the same time I try to "wear the pants" in my relationships

So if I we're a man I would "date" myself because I am fun and affectionate but I would never "commit" to myself because adventually the real me comes out and that is pretty scary... :evilin:

[Stone]

OMG!!! I think I just admited that I am good for a few one nighters LMAO

[Duke]

I wouldn't date myself and have always thought this way. I like who I am but I just can't see myself if I were a woman wanting to date who I am. Actually, if I were a woman I'd likely be a lesbian, men are too much trouble. :?

[darkangelism]

lol, yeah...i knew i should have come to florida.lol,jk

[Paul]

wow great thread! The simple answer is no. I mean, I am a good bf and I'm very loving/caring but as a woman it would take someone much more understanding/patient then I am to put up with me.

[Merika]

It's hard to answer only because if I really love someone....I would be a great choice. I'm totally loyal and loving. I'd gnaw off my arm for someone I consider family.

However, if it's just a casual dating situation..... I'm not worth a crap. I'm far too self serving for that. I can be on a date and if someone else shows up I'd rather be with....I'll leave with THEM....I don't care.

So I doubt I'd date myself.....but I would marry myself. Does that make any sense at all?

[Vautrin]

It makes sense, Merika. You are far too imperfect in your estimate to date, but you are loyal and loving enough to marry. For marriage certain imperfections don't play as large a role, as when you get to know someone.