What Attracts You?

Merika · 02-10-2005, 11:13 AM

What characteristics about a person most attacts you to them in terms of a possible relationship? (Online, IRL, physical, mental....any combination.)

Samson · 02-10-2005, 11:26 AM

You mean besides low riding pants, a six pack of icehouse, and pork rinds? :roll:

darkangelism · 02-10-2005, 11:43 AM

in real life its physical then mental, the opposite for online, but i have stopped with online, cause i ended up crushing on a lot of ladies from here or past sites.

Star · 02-10-2005, 11:50 AM

The first thing that attracts me is a man's disposition. He has to be extremely manly, kind and a gentleman.

I would never try to start an online relationship so i wouldn't know what would attract me on that one. I fear those kinds of relationships. you really never know the person because they're hiding behind their computer screens. It just scares me to death so i wouldn't go there.

twinkle · 02-10-2005, 01:01 PM

No internet relationships for me either. HAd an attempt once, it was funny, but highly unsatisfactory :oops: .

What catches my attention in a man for the first time is his eyes. HE has to have nice eyes.

Then it's the way he moves. I like gracious men, not brutes.

I accept to go out with him if he makes me laugh. It's his confidence, his way of being. That's what makes me say "yes, maybe I'll spend a couple of hours with you".

Stone · 02-10-2005, 04:12 PM

No internet realationships for me,

The first thing I look at is teeth, they must be strait and white.

Duke · 02-10-2005, 07:01 PM

I like long brown hair with highlights, a decent rack and a nice butt. It's even better on a woman.

Merika · 02-11-2005, 06:52 AM

Samson and Duke need....well...something having to do with group therapy. LOL!

Oddly enough, I thought I had an answer to this...but so much has changed...until I'm not longer sure I know anymore.

Judging from my past chioces, usually it will be something odd and quirky about them....and no one else can figure out why I went there. I rarely have ever picked anyone totally suited for me.

Duke · 02-13-2005, 01:48 AM

No self respecting group will have anything to do with me. I guess they figure I'm to normal, level-headed, grounded and intelligent. Either that or I have something sticking out of my nose.

Merika · 02-13-2005, 10:26 AM

Ahh Duke.....you've got TONS of stuff going for you!

Duke · 02-13-2005, 10:33 AM

Actually I feel pretty good about myself overall, I do have more down moments in this stage of my life than I have over the past few years but I think that's only a stage.

Merika · 02-14-2005, 08:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by darkangelism

in real life its physical then mental, the opposite for online, but i have stopped with online, cause i ended up crushing on a lot of ladies from here or past sites.

NO DA...say it ain't so! LMAO! I have to admit you certainly explore eevry possibility!

Duke · 02-14-2005, 07:36 PM

Pretty soon it will be dating magazine ads.

Merika · 02-14-2005, 09:01 PM

To be honest....I'm surprised no one has done that yet. Sounds like a great idea.

Duke · 02-14-2005, 09:02 PM

I meant it a little differently ;-)