Well Hello Officer!!

Stone · 02-09-2005, 04:25 PM

Today at work a police officer client came in who I usually BS with. He noticed my prego belly and told me I broke his heart he assumed one day I would be single... LMAO

I told him my unfortunate situation and he asked me out, I was kind of taken back by the whole idea, who the hell wants to date a prego anyway? He said he usually spends V- DAy with his friends but this year we should both be miserable togeather.

I don't know he is cute, older, a professional, no kids, and has been on the force for 13 years and I LOVE men in uniform, plus I have some weird fantisy about being cuffed :? but I am in no situation to date I am 5 months pregnant... but he is soooo cute and sooo nice.

What do you think??? :?

darkangelism · 02-09-2005, 05:13 PM

well remember what happened when you agreed to just one date last time?

What is going on with you and greg currently?

Whatever happened to, im gonna be single for awhile?

anyway, i think that one might be ok, to see what he is like or whatever.

Samson · 02-09-2005, 05:37 PM

Why not go for it?

Any question from Grego, then tell him this is just the kinda thing he should've expected by not putting a ring on the finger of a "hot mama!"

What's the worst that could happen?

Merika · 02-09-2005, 06:09 PM

You HUSSY you! HAHA!

I don't know SH....I've found that when a female tries to juggle too many men at one time.....it turns into a three ring circus. Chances are, it's better to have the baby first before putting yourself in a position to rock the boat any further.

Mr Sexy Handcuffs can wait until after your post-partum and back on your feet.

I KNOW it's hard to turn away....but you can do it....YES YOU CAN!

Stone · 02-09-2005, 06:16 PM

Greg and I are friendly but he moved out, I still run our business I do want him to buy me out though.

I know I know I can't do it, I want to but I wont. DOn't konow why he would even WANT to date a pregnant chick!! Maby he just felt sorry for me, we we're kind of pals when he came in, but I am pals with everyone.

darkangelism · 02-09-2005, 06:21 PM

maybe he has strange sexual issues, or he likes you enough to wait.

Duke · 02-09-2005, 07:02 PM

Go for it, if you're good enough maybe he can fix your unpaid parking tickets.

Merika · 02-09-2005, 09:26 PM

On come on guys... it's possible his intentions are all good....but I'd check it out first. I wouldn't jump into anything new in the middle of a pregnancy. Dinner and a movie is nice....but better to keep it at that until on down the road.

Duke · 02-09-2005, 09:34 PM

or maybe his intentions aren't so good and all he's looking for is a quick frisk.

Merika · 02-09-2005, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Duke

or maybe his intentions aren't so good and all he's looking for is a quick frisk.

Well...if he's wearing a uniform and has personal hand cuffs....sometimes we females seem to overlook the 'sincerity' of the actions involved. LOL!

Duke · 02-09-2005, 10:09 PM

Hmmn, looks like I'm signing up at the police academy.

Merika · 02-09-2005, 10:28 PM

Not a bad choice. I think you would look quite FETCHING in an officer's uniform.

Duke · 02-09-2005, 10:43 PM

Looks like I have a new idea for my next photoshop experiment.

Star · 02-10-2005, 06:11 AM

I say go for it SH. Going to dinner or a movie with a guy isn't a big deal. it's just spending time with a "friend". I wouldn't jump into bed with him right away or anything but going out on an innocent date, nothing wrong with that at all.

I think he's liked you for a long time. That would be my guess as to why he's still asking you out when you're pregnant. He really does like you.

so go out and have a good time.

twinkle · 02-10-2005, 06:35 AM

Heather, you're on an emotional rollercoaster. Your hormones are making decisions for you.

What happened to "I want to stay with Greg, because he's incredible with Noah"?

Especially since you think there's a chance for you two, guys. No relationship is easy and you have to work very very hard in order to make it right. Maybe your little girl desirves a chance to have her real father near her in the years to come.

Keep the rest of your 4 months to yourself. Just... think a lot before acting. I'm sure it will put things on a prospective for you.

Good luck,

Twinkle