Relationship Blues

[Duke]

Even happy relationships suffer from ups and downs. I'm curious, how often do you suffer from blues even in your best relationships?

[twinkle]

Never more than 3 days, if we have a raw. I hate to let things unsettled.

Now it depends on thevtype of "blues". When he's in a fault he knows it and he always makes up for it. So mainly.... one week.

Oh I do have my insecurities too, but I manage to get through them in the given time, usually.

[Star]

Hubby and I mostly agree to disagree but when that doesn't happen, the "blues" only lasts a few hours then it's forgotten. I've got a good sence of humor so I can usually change his moods quickly. Get him smiling and we're back in business again. :wink:

[Merika]

In the past....my cure all is not speaking to someone. Ofcourse....I talk SO much....I can't hold out for very long!!

[Meanon]

Not very often. I hate arguing with loved ones. I employ the same tactics as with toddlers, patience and effective distraction. If it's something that really can't be avoided then I try and choose my moment well.

All that goes out the window when I lose my temper, which is so rare that everyone is appalled and just does as I say

[Adonaicole]

patience and effective distraction

Being a man, I must say that I'm easily distracted...a few buttons undone and I'm not mad anymore...ha, ha... 8O

[Duke]

I tend to get riled up easy if my buttons are pushed. Normally it doesn't happen because if I'm a bit edgy I'll tell my partner.

[Merika]

Originally Posted by Adonaicole

Being a man, I must say that I'm easily distracted...a few buttons undone and I'm not mad anymore...ha, ha... 8O

You are TOO SWEET Adonai!!!!

[Adonaicole]

Thank you for the compliment, Merika. but, seriously, life is way to short to be sad or angry for long. I like having fun and making up. I would much rather be kissing a woman, than crying on her shoulder or yelling at her. Talk is cheap, but good kisses, we remember for a lifetime.

[calizza]

It usually doesnt last long, but I am usually the one who gets mad. But I get so angry and I let it out so fast that it is over with failrly quick.

[Stone]

I often suffer from the relationship blues, Maby I am just one of those people who always have to be mad about something or maby it's my spouces Bipolor disorder... But I am sad much more than happy.

[Duke]

Originally Posted by Stoneheather

I often suffer from the relationship blues, Maby I am just one of those people who always have to be mad about something or maby it's my spouces Bipolor disorder... But I am sad much more than happy.

Do you want a hug, I could sure use one?

[Stone]

AWWWW Whats wrong Duke? :getaroom:

[Duke]

Originally Posted by Stoneheather

AWWWW Whats wrong Duke? :getaroom:

Bad day, no beer.

Thanks for caring, you all rulez0rz :!:

[Stone]

Day's almost over.... if you stand on your head and plug your nose... you'll get a head rush like you just had a few.... LMAO!! :shocking:

[Duke]

lol, maybe I'll try that.