Night Out With Friends

[Merika]

In a relationship....do you see or have a problem with your SO having a girls or boys night out with their friends (or just go out alone without you)? Do you think it's necessary? Do you think it's wrong? How often could it occur without totally makes you angry?

[Duke]

I have no problem with my other half having girls nite out at all. So long as she's coming home to me and not being a total tease around the opposite sex then I'm fine with it.

[Star]

Hubby and I don't have seperate nights out...we don't have too many nights out just the two of us. We take the kids with us mostly everywhere we go.

We used to do the girls and guys night out thing earlier into our relationship. We're happier just sitting at home with a bag of chips, pop and a movie to watch. We're as home bodies as they come and we're happy this way. When you're with a person for as long as we have been together, nights out with the guys or girls aren't important anymore. You end up actually enjoying spending most of your free time with eachother.

I find nothing wrong with girls/guys night out as long as there's no hurting or lack of respect for one another. Once a week or bi-weekly should be enough though. If it's anymore then that, from my past experiences, you end up not spending enough time with eachother and the relationship suffers.

[darkangelism]

It would depend on the person, i know people that let their SO go out with the guys and he does stuff that she prolly wouldnt like. But i also know people who it totally works for.

[twinkle]

He sees his friends more than he sees me. I have NO problem with that.

They go out, sometimes to pubs, other times they just play videogames or eat out. That's great. I do the same but to a smaller scale (still have lots of studying to do). He doesn't mind it either, he actually encourages me to do so more often.

When would that make me mad? When he'd prefer seeing them durig the weekend. We usually see eachother during the week end, so I'd be really pissed off to have to change my plans just so that he can see them more.

How much of going out would make me mad? It depends. He's not addicted to going out, there were weeks when he didn't want to see no one but me (not the whole week, though!!!).



We also have preserved our own set of friends. Meaning that there were several parties where there were girls and for different reasons, I wasn't there. I trust him completely and I don't feel like controling him. But should he go out to several parties during the week (when I can't even think about going out) for several weeks, that would bug me.


But I don't see that happening too soon. He lives 2 hours away from Paris, meaning 4 hours of driving just to see his friends. I'm bad, , but this little detail plays a major role in our lives. I used to hate it in the beginning, now I got to appreciate it .

[Stone]

I would have a big problem with anyone I dated not letting me do my own thing. I have nights out with my friends all the time sometimes I take vacations with just the girls.... My b/f can do the same. I trust him much more than he trusts me. I am a tease... he knows it but he also knows I would never do anything