new girl

darkangelism · 07-01-2005, 09:32 PM

I met this new girl at work, she just started last week. I had thought i was using her to get with the other girl i like, but now im starting to like her for her. We have only talked a few times, but she gave me her number and took mine and asked me to go to the bar with me, but she hasnt called me yet, so i think she is waiting for me to call her, to show that im interested, because i wasnt intersted at first at being more then friends but she started flirting with me and i started looking at her differently. She isnt the kind of girl i normally like either, looks wise or stage of life. She isnt looking for a realtionship, just a guy to fool around with, which i am more then fine with because i dont want a long term relationship with me going back to NYC in a few months.

Merika · 07-04-2005, 09:12 AM

Well....it's good to FINALLY hear from you DA. It's not the same when you are busy and not posting as much. Exactly when are you scheduled to return to NYC?

OH...any new word on this particular girl?

Stone · 07-04-2005, 09:55 PM

How do you know she is just looking for a guy to fool around with? Did she tell you that?

anyways CaLL HER

Duke · 07-05-2005, 01:05 AM

Women say all kinds of non-commital bs prior to dating and the story changes once she realizes she is interested.

You better call her and soon, if you leave it more than a day or two then she'll think your not interested.

Merika · 07-05-2005, 10:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duke

Women say all kinds of non-commital bs prior to dating and the story changes once she realizes she is interested.

You better call her and soon, if you leave it more than a day or two then she'll think your not interested.

EXACTLY.

twinkle · 07-05-2005, 02:30 PM

Call her on your nonchalant tone - it seems it's what worked with her.

Merika · 07-06-2005, 01:53 PM

BTW: I sure miss it when you aren't around as much DA!

darkangelism · 07-13-2005, 07:52 AM

I called her and she said she would call me back, and she didnt. Then she quit her job, so i didnt see her for a week, then she unquit and showed up at work like nothing was out of the ordinary, so im not sure what is going on with her.

She basically said that she wants a guy with no commitment.

The whole thing is kinda strange, but im gonna see what happens. Sorry i havnt been around much, no internet in my room and little time with working 70 hours a week.