my gf's friend

darkangelism · 04-18-2008, 06:04 PM

ok, so me and my gf have been together a bit over a month and a few weeks ago she met this guy from one of her classes from Morracco and she has an obession with morracco so they started talking and went to the movies with some other people from class and he insisted on paying for her, she then realized that he likes her, I found it kinda amusing that some other guy likes her and cant have her.

So they have been talking for awhile and he decided that he really liked her and told her to leave me and date him instead or he would stop being her friend, and she pretty much laughed in his face and was like "yeah right im gonna leave my bf/best friend to date a guy i have known less then a month but i can stay your friend and get to know you better" His response was that it wasnt fair to him. His whole concept of him stealing her away from me is insane and comicial almost, but i still want to beat him, or get him deported or tell him to get away from my girl even if there is no risk of him taking her, she told me today she would never leave a guy for another guy because of the risk that they are worse then what she had.

Vautrin · 04-19-2008, 02:26 AM

Just be a bit careful. Situations like that can get complicated.

No need to beat him. You already have.

darkangelism · 04-19-2008, 03:42 AM

yeah, well i found out more information, his mom has cancer and so he probably has to go home, so thats why he gave her the ultimatum hoping he would have some time to be with her before he left, which is at least a decent reason, but still the demand was ludicrous.

Vautrin · 04-19-2008, 04:23 AM

That is sad. But of course, that does not mean you will get what you want (as in this guy's case).

Good that your gf dealt with it this way.

NoTargeT · 04-19-2008, 04:46 AM

Whenever someone hits on my wife, I usually consider it a compliment for my good taste

Next to that i have enough trust in my wife not to be scared of anything happening. Although back in the old days I stole some gf's away from their boyfriend. Was a bit tricky sometimes, esp when the ex boyfriend turned out to be a musclepack of a bouncer, heh. I never engaged in the action before the boyfriends were ex-boyfriends though, I had that much decency. And I never asked them to leave him. They just did... Anyway, back to my first thought, just consider it a compliment

Luba · 04-19-2008, 07:29 AM

DA, she's chose you and just be happy about that. No need to keep conversing about the other guy and have more problems created because of that!

darkangelism · 04-19-2008, 01:03 PM

yeah, i was fine when he liked her, but when he actively started saying and doing stuff and causing drama thats when i got mad.

darkangelism · 04-25-2008, 12:05 AM

ok, so he has a pending trial for a felony assault that he got while drunk, so my gf told him that he shouldnt drink anymore, so he said got mad and said that she is a women and shouldnt tell a man what to do and that if they were in morocco she would go to jail for that. So she is all upset and i want to break his face.

NoTargeT · 04-25-2008, 01:27 AM

Well a nice guy he's turning out to be.. Isn't your girlfriend seeing this? Why is she even still talking to the guy. Time to give him the boot I'd say...
And if they'd been in Morocco he'd already be in jail for the felony assault, and a few cops would be explaining him that is a bad thing by using less official methods then in the states. And he'd be sharing his cel with 40 guys who'd consider assault one of their friendlier acts
Oh, and don't break his face, that's felony assault as well :P.

darkangelism · 04-25-2008, 02:35 AM

yeah i know i wont, but yeah he says he got in the fight cause the other guy started it, so he probably wont be convicted, but still its stupid, and yeah i dont think she is talking to him anymore.

IvyRose · 04-25-2008, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by darkangelism

...so my gf told him that he shouldnt drink anymore, so he said got mad and said that she is a women and shouldnt tell a man what to do and that if they were in morocco she would go to jail for that. So she is all upset...

Ummm... Maybe she shouldn't tell a man what to do. Then, she wouldn't be upset and you wouldn't be put into yet another dangerous situation.

It's not like he slapped her around, right? Little Miss Must-Be-Right just got ticked off about being put in her place, right?

She should probably try and get some girlfriends to talk to, instead of "Oh, we're just friends because I'm so into Morocco..." *cough*

Anyway, I'll shut up now. You already know how I feel.

darkangelism · 04-25-2008, 11:29 PM

lol, yeah i know how you feel and you're a good person and i respect your opinion, and she probably did overreact, but the guy is an idiot anyway.

She did pass my parents approval

IvyRose · 04-26-2008, 08:10 PM

She should stay away from idiots.

I'm glad your parents approve. It should help your relationship with her. I hope her parents approve as well.

One more dig:

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she would never leave a guy for another guy because of the risk that they are worse then what she had.

How romantic. *swoon*

I sat on my fingers so I wouldn't respond to this thread or the other one, but I just couldn't take it anymore. While it is true, that leaving one person for another is no guarantee that you'll trade up, I think she could've said a multitude of things that would have shown how she really feels about you.

Maybe she did and you're not sharing it. It just made my heart break that that was what she came up with to reassure you she was sticking by your side.

It just sounds like you're still stuck in the "friend zone."

PepsiChic · 04-26-2008, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by IvyRose

She should stay away from idiots.

I'm glad your parents approve. It should help your relationship with her. I hope her parents approve as well.

One more dig:

Quote:

she would never leave a guy for another guy because of the risk that they are worse then what she had.

How romantic. *swoon*

I sat on my fingers so I wouldn't respond to this thread or the other one, but I just couldn't take it anymore. While it is true, that leaving one person for another is no guarantee that you'll trade up, I think she could've said a multitude of things that would have shown how she really feels about you.

Maybe she did and you're not sharing it. It just made my heart break that that was what she came up with to reassure you she was sticking by your side.

It just sounds like you're still stuck in the "friend zone."

omg, you couldnt of said EXACTLY what i was thinking any better - are you in my head?!

when da first said she said that i nearly went off on one about it. but i kept my mouth shut.

da - im sorry but she doesnt seem like shes changed one bit :/