| Marriage, Dating Discussing all issues surrounding marriage and dating. Is it love? Find out here. |
03-08-2008, 09:22 PM
|
#1 (permalink)
|
|
Moderator
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 12,777
|
Love Letters
Have you written any/one/lots of Love Letters to your loved one? Do you write a note once a day, once a month, on special occasions, or never? Have you ever received Love Letters? Have you kept letters from Loves that have moved on?
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 12:41 AM
|
#2 (permalink)
|
|
Moderator
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 791
|
Re: Love Letters
I used to write quite a bit, to share a bit of myself and to my loved one. That practice has stopped though, the meaning of it all seems to be tainted (or some how means less to me) because of the surrounding circumstances. I poured my heart out several times (on paper) and I lost a part of myself when the relationship ended.
Once upon waking, somewhere between being truly awake and asleep, I had a vision. A vision that I'll not soon forget.
I was laying in the center of a large stone tower. In the center of that tower was a rug, to me it seemed a very old rug. Truly beautiful, the rug was oriental in design. The pattern was deceiving to the eye, because at first there seemed to be none. Then after closely examining the pattern, which seemed to lead to nowhere, you could tell that the maker had something wonderful in mind, for all the points that lead outward seemed to close back to the center of the rug, in a lovely array of colors in many different hues. This is where i spent my days, examining this pattern inside my prison. I cannot remember how I got to this place, and it most certainly did not seem to matter anymore. This is where I have been and where I must stay, so I told myself. Outside my prison I could hear laughter, the sounds of children, life in general. This sounded very appealing to me, but I knew, I must stay in this place. Safe inside not chancing anything new, this was all I knew, all I've ever known.
One morning I awoke again to hear the sounds outside, something in my prison seemed different. I looked around, the same stone walls, same beautiful rug. Nothing tangible but something was amiss. Once again I sat on my rug, studying the pattern, for I never failed to find something new there. Then without warning the carpet lifted off the ground. My first thought was to jump, I did not want to leave my prison, but something inside, a soft whisper perhaps, told me to stay. The carpet rose further and further, I was truly afraid at this point, but then I heard it again. That soft whisper, or was it really a whisper? That I do not know, but I stayed as the rug rose higher and higher lifting me out of my tower. At the top of my tower i could see those below. They all seemed familiar some how. Then the rug started off towards the side of a mountain close by. The path it lead me down was through a valley in the mountain. Along the way I could see the faces of those below. These people i did know! Those from my past, they looked upon me with no particular interest. I saw in there eyes a longing to be free and all at once I did not begrudge my staying in my tower. I did not want that to be me, hoping for an escape from the things I couldn't change. Truly I was terrified, I was going somewhere without knowing. There was nothing familiar in my surroundings.
Then I heard it again, this time a pronounced whisper. The sound was comforting, it held my spirit, and made me feel calm once again. The rug kept going down the valley to this unknown place. As quickly as it had started going up the rug slowed, then lowered to the ground. Where I stopped I could see a cave, once again the whisper, this time it was beckoning me. Slowly at first, for me steps were tentative at that point, I started moving towards the cave opening. I started walking, then a jog, and before i knew it the whisper was no more. Now it was virtually a shout in my mind. Beckoning me more and more. Before I knew it I was running, running away from all I knew. Running from my prison, trying to escape all those behind me. I know not how long I ran through this dimly lit corridor, but at last I saw strong light ahead. My steps slowed and I nearly faltered at the opening to the brilliant room ahead. This time no whisper or shout was there, a gentle voice called out for me to enter. The single most lovely voice I have ever heard. Upon hearing this voice I entered and there I saw.
I saw you.
I wrote this to a person that I was completely and totally in love with, at a time in my life when I was truly learning a lot about me and what it was to be in love. I found out that all my feelings meant nothing and that she did not have the courage to allow us to be together. Like I said, I lost something.
__________________
Don't drink and park, accidents cause people.
"The moon is more important than the sun, because at night we need the light more."
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 01:48 AM
|
#3 (permalink)
|
|
Established Member
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 396
|
Re: Love Letters
I wrote GG a letter and sent it in a box with a present for 3-month anniversary a few months ago.
Do 'love private messages' count? I've sent her thousands of those.
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 10:04 AM
|
#4 (permalink)
|
|
Moderator
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: At Home
Posts: 7,037
|
Re: Love Letters
I think any kind of love letter or note or message counts.
__________________
"Love isn't finding someone you can live with,
it is finding someone you can't live without"
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 10:07 AM
|
#5 (permalink)
|
|
Moderator
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 12,777
|
Re: Love Letters
IR, What a beautiful, beautiful letter!  I hope the girl in question knows what a treasure she lost.
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 06:45 PM
|
#6 (permalink)
|
|
Administrator
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 8,740
|
Re: Love Letters
I have written a few. Never sent any of them though. And that is for the best. I always get way too philosophical and reflective to the point of absurdity. 
__________________
"Live your questions now, and perhaps even without knowing it, you will live along some distant day into your answers." -- Rainer Maria Rilke
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 06:46 PM
|
#7 (permalink)
|
|
Moderator
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 12,777
|
Re: Love Letters
Quote:
Originally Posted by Vautrin
I have written a few. Never sent any of them though. And that is for the best. I always get way too philosophical and reflective to the point of absurdity. 
|
Sounds ve-ry interesting! 
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 06:51 PM
|
#8 (permalink)
|
|
Administrator
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 8,740
|
Re: Love Letters
In a sense, it is. But it is just saying with difficult words what should be said in three words. The beauty of essence cannot be described in words.
I still have them all.
__________________
"Live your questions now, and perhaps even without knowing it, you will live along some distant day into your answers." -- Rainer Maria Rilke
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 07:04 PM
|
#9 (permalink)
|
|
Moderator
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 12,777
|
Re: Love Letters
Quote:
Originally Posted by Vautrin
The beauty of essence cannot be described in words.
|
That is SO beautiful!
Do you ever go back and read them?
|
|
|
03-09-2008, 07:08 PM
|
#10 (permalink)
|
|
Administrator
Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 8,740
|
Re: Love Letters
Quote:
Originally Posted by Luba
Quote:
Originally Posted by Vautrin
The beauty of essence cannot be described in words.
|
That is SO beautiful! 
|
It is. But you can hardly write anything lovable and optimistic with that.
Do you ever go back and read them?[/quote]
Very rarely I do. But that is mostly random, as I haven't seen these girls in years.
__________________
"Live your questions now, and perhaps even without knowing it, you will live along some distant day into your answers." -- Rainer Maria Rilke
|
|
|
04-28-2008, 08:24 AM
|
#11 (permalink)
|
|
Established Member
Join Date: Apr 2008
Posts: 355
|
Re: Love Letters
I'm the sort to write love letters. Although in B.'s instance I kept a journal, with a mind to giving it to her one day. I kept this journal, because I wanted her to know every single thing I thought and felt about her and our interactions and the way she made me feel. I still have the journal, and maybe one day, I'll give it to her. Should she ever be wondering what it is someone would love about her. Just hope that never happens, because that will mean heartbreak in her current relationship, and she loves that woman dearly.
|
|
|
04-28-2008, 09:27 AM
|
#12 (permalink)
|
|
Banned (Perm)
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 1,234
|
Re: Love Letters
Quote:
Originally Posted by Vautrin
I always get way too philosophical and reflective to the point of absurdity. 
|
LMAO!
Now, I really wonder what they say!!
I wrote and received MANY love letters, and kept them ALL so that decades after I'm dead my grandkids will publish them and I'll be World Famous. 
|
|
|
04-28-2008, 10:12 AM
|
#13 (permalink)
|
|
Veteran Member
Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 2,428
|
Re: Love Letters
do private messages count?
me and Fb write page long books to eachother in the form of private messages. we write it in a letter form more or less. so i think it should count the same. just a more modern form of a love letter i guess!
anyway i keep having to expand my inbox because i dont want to delete any he sends me! i read them over and over and know most of them word for word now 
__________________

Click^
|
|
| |