If You Fell Madly In Love..

Luba · 03-01-2008, 07:23 AM

With a person and there are certain things he/she wanted you to change about yourself...would you?...remember, you are MADLY in love with this person.

TKDLady · 03-01-2008, 02:45 PM

Depends on what they wanted me to change. When I was younger I probably would have tried to change anything they asked. Now, no I would not change. They either love me as I am or they don't really love me.

Duke · 03-01-2008, 03:05 PM

...is this really an Inner Me topic or more of a general relationship topic?

I think everyone changes a bit for their significant either whether they know it or not. As we grow closer we learn each others likes/dislikes and try to cater to them accordingly even if it means altering our own behavior.

TKDLady · 03-01-2008, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Duke

...is this really an Inner Me topic or more of a general relationship topic?

I think everyone changes a bit for their significant either whether they know it or not. As we grow closer we learn each others likes/dislikes and try to cater to them accordingly even if it means altering our own behavior.

That is true. If they specifically asked me to change something I would have to consider it. Some things I could live with and change others I might be able to change for a bit but after a while I would revert back.

Luba · 03-01-2008, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Duke

...is this really an Inner Me topic or more of a general relationship topic?

Heck if I know! If it's got anything to do with feelings, I put it here!

Zil · 03-01-2008, 07:08 PM

If they felt I needed to change something, then they don't feel the same way as I do for them.

SO, that would be a huge wake-up sign for me and I'd say: F 'em!

TKDLady · 03-01-2008, 08:03 PM

Welcome back Zil. We have missed you.

NoTargeT · 03-02-2008, 09:18 AM

Accepting me for who I am is of a big influence on me falling in love with someone.
If they'd want me to change who I am my crush would be gone pretty quickly I guess.

Zil · 03-02-2008, 06:47 PM

Thanks TKDLady

..and I couldn't have said it better, NT!

darkangelism · 03-02-2008, 09:46 PM

i would, im weak id change way before love

Duke · 03-04-2008, 02:45 AM

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Originally Posted by NoTargeT

Accepting me for who I am is of a big influence on me falling in love with someone.
If they'd want me to change who I am my crush would be gone pretty quickly I guess.

I accept you for who you are

Luba · 03-04-2008, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Duke

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Originally Posted by NoTargeT

Accepting me for who I am is of a big influence on me falling in love with someone.
If they'd want me to change who I am my crush would be gone pretty quickly I guess.

I accept you for who you are

Beautiful, just beautiful!