If You Fell Madly In Love..

Luba · 03-01-2008, 06:23 AM

With a person and there are certain things he/she wanted you to change about yourself...would you?...remember, you are MADLY in love with this person.

TKDLady · 03-01-2008, 01:45 PM

Depends on what they wanted me to change. When I was younger I probably would have tried to change anything they asked. Now, no I would not change. They either love me as I am or they don't really love me.

Duke · 03-01-2008, 02:05 PM

...is this really an Inner Me topic or more of a general relationship topic?

I think everyone changes a bit for their significant either whether they know it or not. As we grow closer we learn each others likes/dislikes and try to cater to them accordingly even if it means altering our own behavior.

TKDLady · 03-01-2008, 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duke

...is this really an Inner Me topic or more of a general relationship topic?

I think everyone changes a bit for their significant either whether they know it or not. As we grow closer we learn each others likes/dislikes and try to cater to them accordingly even if it means altering our own behavior.

That is true. If they specifically asked me to change something I would have to consider it. Some things I could live with and change others I might be able to change for a bit but after a while I would revert back.

Luba · 03-01-2008, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Duke

...is this really an Inner Me topic or more of a general relationship topic?

Heck if I know! If it's got anything to do with feelings, I put it here!

Zil · 03-01-2008, 06:08 PM

If they felt I needed to change something, then they don't feel the same way as I do for them.

SO, that would be a huge wake-up sign for me and I'd say: F 'em!

TKDLady · 03-01-2008, 07:03 PM

Welcome back Zil. We have missed you.

NoTargeT · 03-02-2008, 08:18 AM

Accepting me for who I am is of a big influence on me falling in love with someone.
If they'd want me to change who I am my crush would be gone pretty quickly I guess.

Zil · 03-02-2008, 05:47 PM

Thanks TKDLady

..and I couldn't have said it better, NT!

darkangelism · 03-02-2008, 08:46 PM

i would, im weak id change way before love

Duke · 03-04-2008, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by NoTargeT

Accepting me for who I am is of a big influence on me falling in love with someone.
If they'd want me to change who I am my crush would be gone pretty quickly I guess.

I accept you for who you are

Luba · 03-04-2008, 06:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Duke

Quote:

Originally Posted by NoTargeT

Accepting me for who I am is of a big influence on me falling in love with someone.
If they'd want me to change who I am my crush would be gone pretty quickly I guess.

I accept you for who you are

Beautiful, just beautiful!

03-01-2008, 06:23 AM	#1
Luba Veteran Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow! My Communication Style: Optimistic, Experience Posts: 18,690	If You Fell Madly In Love.. With a person and there are certain things he/she wanted you to change about yourself...would you?...remember, you are MADLY in love with this person.

03-01-2008, 01:45 PM	#2
TKDLady Moderator Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: At Home My Communication Style: Supportive, Honest Posts: 9,319	Re: If You Fell Madly In Love.. Depends on what they wanted me to change. When I was younger I probably would have tried to change anything they asked. Now, no I would not change. They either love me as I am or they don't really love me. __________________ "Love isn't finding someone you can live with, it is finding someone you can't live without"

03-01-2008, 02:05 PM	#3
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 25,259	Re: If You Fell Madly In Love.. ...is this really an Inner Me topic or more of a general relationship topic? I think everyone changes a bit for their significant either whether they know it or not. As we grow closer we learn each others likes/dislikes and try to cater to them accordingly even if it means altering our own behavior. __________________ My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

03-01-2008, 06:08 PM	#6
Zil Dedicated Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Tennessee My Communication Style: Playful, Honest Posts: 583	Re: If You Fell Madly In Love.. If they felt I needed to change something, then they don't feel the same way as I do for them. SO, that would be a huge wake-up sign for me and I'd say: F 'em! __________________ http://www.myspace.com/xzildjianx http://xzilx.blogspot.com

03-01-2008, 07:03 PM	#7
TKDLady Moderator Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: At Home My Communication Style: Supportive, Honest Posts: 9,319	Re: If You Fell Madly In Love.. Welcome back Zil. We have missed you. __________________ "Love isn't finding someone you can live with, it is finding someone you can't live without"

03-02-2008, 08:18 AM	#8
NoTargeT Fragtard.net Staff Join Date: Sep 2007 My Communication Style: Honest, Experience Posts: 308	Re: If You Fell Madly In Love.. Accepting me for who I am is of a big influence on me falling in love with someone. If they'd want me to change who I am my crush would be gone pretty quickly I guess. __________________

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Zil Dedicated Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Tennessee My Communication Style: Playful, Honest Posts: 583	Re: If You Fell Madly In Love.. Thanks TKDLady ..and I couldn't have said it better, NT! __________________ http://www.myspace.com/xzildjianx http://xzilx.blogspot.com

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darkangelism Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: oklahoma Posts: 5,893	Re: If You Fell Madly In Love.. i would, im weak id change way before love __________________

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