i almost got a girl - Page 2

Vautrin · 09-10-2005, 03:33 PM

That sucks. But indeed, try to think of other things, and DO other things. And stick to your own formulated plan of calling her not sooner than Monday.

darkangelism · 09-10-2005, 03:58 PM

yeah, i know that if i call sooner that i will seem desperate. I really dont want to do that, not cause it has gone well so far.

Well supposedly she is coming to visit my friend tonight and my friend was gonna invite me, but they are going to a club and that means that the girl will prolly end up dancing with other guys and ill get jealous, so im not sure if i should go.

Stone · 09-10-2005, 06:28 PM

You should go!

Luba · 09-10-2005, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Stone

You should go!

and if she dances with other guys, you dance with other girls and just have a lot of fun! I don't mean trying to make Her jealous, just have a lot of fun hanging out...

darkangelism · 09-10-2005, 06:55 PM

yeah, i think ill go, i mean i havnt been officially invited yet, but my friend said it like i could go.

I hate clubs and dancing though, a lot of painful memories. Last time i went, i walked out on my friends and left. If it didnt bother me so much wouldnt even debate over it.

im starting to have a bad feeling about this whole thing, mentally preparing for being hurt, its a response to my past, i try to protect myself from getting hurt.

update: No club, we are going to the bar, much better for me, i still have the possibility of getting jealous, but easier to deal with it.

Luba · 09-10-2005, 07:56 PM

I hope you have a good time anyway, DA; do you play Pool?

When I worked downtown, some of the girls and I would go for a drink and appys at the pub around the corner, lots of fun...

darkangelism · 09-10-2005, 08:45 PM

ill try and have a good time, if i dont ill be on here whining like usual,lol. No i dont play pool im horrible at it, i used to be ok, but not anymore, i have a physical disability so its hard for me, im better at baseball, basketball, football, that i can do more one handed.

Stone · 09-10-2005, 08:55 PM

DA you don't have a reason to get jellous YET so just have fun with friends and if something happens later cool and if not you had a good time. put your CONFIDENCE on tonight as you should EVERY NIGHT 8)

Luba · 09-10-2005, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by darkangelism

ill try and have a good time, if i dont ill be on here whining like usual,lol.

I don't call it whining, I call it sharing with friends!

BTW, you mentioned Football...do you watch it on TV? I can hardly wait til tomorrow to have breakfast, then watch "Fox NFL Sunday" then the game, except I don't know what teams are playing...I don't care who's playing, I'm just glad NFL Football is on again

One of the guys is going to Seattle next week to watch Michael Vick play...I am green with envy...every time one of the guys walks past me at work he pretends he's throwing a football and gets this little evil grin...it was suggested that I go with the guys, like I will stay married after that, my husband will throw me out on my rear!

darkangelism · 09-10-2005, 09:21 PM

i have all sorts of issues with getting jealous, i know i shouldnt. I am pretty confident, and ill get a boost when i start drinking. It might not happen, she hasnt called my friend yet, and my friend told me to call her and i said no.

Yes i watch football, i missed only a few games last year, im a giants fan and they suck. As long as the pats dont win again i wont complain.

darkangelism · 09-11-2005, 01:17 AM

well we went to the bar, and it sucked, as soon as we got there some freshman started talking to her and they went and played beer pong, i got jealous, watched them play then left with 2 of the other people i went with. I barly got to talk to her at all, so im gonna call her tomorrow, i wasnt until mon, but because i saw her today, that changes things. I really just want to give up and forget about her. The sad thing is i wasnt even drunk, it was all normal emotion that caused it. Im really down on myself right now, thinking im not good enough and that sorta thing.

Stone · 09-11-2005, 10:58 AM

Whats beer pong? why didn't you play

Luba · 09-11-2005, 11:03 AM

DA, may I ask why you are so down on yourself? With every post you make, you sound like a very smart, intelligent, warm-hearted, caring, sincere, and most of all, honest man...which are all top qualities to have in my book!!!

darkangelism · 09-11-2005, 11:43 AM

beer pong is a drinking game, where you toss ping pong balls into a cup. I didnt play cause the other guys asked the girls to play. I could have playe afterwards, or talked to her more, but my mood was going downhill and i didnt want to be there anymore. I was really down on myself, i try to be all those things luba, im very afraid of being hurt, the few times i let my guard down i got hurt, so now if i bring myself down, so that when i get rejected, i can rationalize them not liking me, i convince myself that im not good looking enough or smart enough or whatever for them.

I feel slightly better now, im gonna get out of this limbo of liking her, and just ask her out and see what happens. Though im already thinking of answers to rejection.

darkangelism · 09-11-2005, 12:49 PM

well i called her and i left a message on her voicemail, asking her out, which was probably stupid, and less then 15 mins later my other friend who is her friend knew i had asked her out, and i hadnt heard back, so she is obviously gonna say no.

update: she called me back...said, just friends...which means i try to never talk to her again.