Girls Girls Girls

Weiser · 06-10-2008, 11:15 PM

No this isn't an intro to a Motely Crue song...

So, I met a girl on Friday named Aileen. She's really cute and has one of the most forward personalities I have ever seen in my life, but it's nice and refreshing. Plus, she loves sports. She's 26, a paralegal at a laywers firm and I have a date with her this weekend.

I also met this extremely hot Australian girl a couple weeks ago through my old aussie roommate Sharon. We get along really good, and she's a definate good girl. Plus, she's Australian. She's 25 and is a marketer for Sunlife Fiancial. We have a date this weekend too (no, not on the same day).

I'm also still hung up on Rachel. I'm staying with her when I go back to Calgary in a month, plus we're also going to Vegas together in September. We talk all the time and she is the sole reason I wish I never left Calgary.

What the bloody hells do I do?!?!?!? Up until the last few weeks I haven't even bothered thinking about girls, but now all my friends, my sister, and even my parents are asking me if I have met anyone - and in like one week I've met 2 incredible girls. I'm going crazy here

WHAT DO I DO?!? Ugh I'm going to bed.

Fireblade · 06-10-2008, 11:42 PM

I'd take the Australian girl, The one I dated a few years ago was great... lol

But I'm biased seeing as I'm with another foreigner... :P

darkangelism · 06-11-2008, 12:55 AM

pick one then send the other two my way

Vautrin · 06-11-2008, 02:22 AM

Just enjoy the dates. The situation with Rachel is a bit complicated (company policies and all that), not to mention the distance. As long as that stays as it is, there is not much you can do. Plus, does Rachel know you feel like that?

In the dates you will find out whether Aileen or Amy (or neither) might be right for you. Or whether it is Rachel, but in that case the two of you may be forced into ways of overcoming the various obstacles.

Scott · 06-11-2008, 07:38 AM

I agree with Vautrin: Essentially, aside from the unavoidable fact that "When it Rains it Pours," What is the problem?

1. You feel guilty? Obviously not: If you did, then you hide it VERY well.
2. You don't like being answering questions about your love life? Then say so.
3. You will go broke going out on Two dates over a weekend? Valid Concern.

Luba · 06-11-2008, 09:15 AM

Weiser, I can say this because I'm a grandmother. I just think your bl00dy irresistible! ( I hope that wasn't swearing!)

I think you should just enjoy yourself until you are ready to settle down; then you'll just know. Up until then, tell people to mind their own business.

Mondo · 06-11-2008, 11:37 AM

Flip a coin.

Vautrin · 06-11-2008, 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mondo

Flip a coin.

But there is 3 choices. And there is no chance that you can give 33.333% chance to each girl with coins.

TKDLady · 06-11-2008, 09:36 PM

See how the dates go. You already know how you feel about Rachel. If it is a strong feeling then these dates won't go very far. You are young. Play the field, find out what you can and can't live with. Just don't lie. Tell them you are not exclusive at the moment and make sure they are okay with that. The worst thing would be for one to think she is your one and only and then find out later that you were not thinking the same thing.