I do great at first dates. I's the next ones that are more difficult. I mean, you feel if there's chemistry or not, if you like the person or not, if you feel like seeing them again or not.
I used to be a bit preoccupied by this, but now i just don't think about it. It's all about getting to know the other person - and the first date is the most deceitful one. It's like a game, where the other person is only showing you their best cards. Don't buy it, stay on your guards and dig deeper. If you're having a good time and if the other person is worth the effort and the time, of course, lol
I dread dating, lol