First Dates

[Luba]

Anyone that is human has anxiety about a first date, IMHO. What advice would you give anyone going on or thinking about asking someone for a first date? Feel free to expand on this topic that has anything to do with a first date.

Since I only just came up with the question, I'll take some time to ponder this myself.

[BridgieBridge]

Good Topic Luba! First dates, i think everyone has to feel a little anxious! They can also be fun, getting to know someone for the first time, they can also be not so good, if it does'nt go well and you don't mesh! Either way it's gonna either be the beginning or an ending of something! I suggest people keep it light on a first date, not to much pressure. Be sure to be open yet be sure to also listen. Don't talk about the past but talk about the present! Most importantly just have fun.

[twinkle]

I do great at first dates. I's the next ones that are more difficult. I mean, you feel if there's chemistry or not, if you like the person or not, if you feel like seeing them again or not.

I used to be a bit preoccupied by this, but now i just don't think about it. It's all about getting to know the other person - and the first date is the most deceitful one. It's like a game, where the other person is only showing you their best cards. Don't buy it, stay on your guards and dig deeper. If you're having a good time and if the other person is worth the effort and the time, of course, lol!

I dread dating, lol !