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08-28-2005, 02:05 PM
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Didn't want anyone to know....
Have you ever went out with someone who you hoped no one you knew would see you with?
I had a few blind dates like that. They WERE kinda ugly...but ugly with RANK!
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08-28-2005, 02:10 PM
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YEP, when I was at my last job, I went to dinner with OLD OLD men all the time. ( I got paid for it) but it was embarassing.. most of the time I think folks must have thought I was out with my grandfather 
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08-28-2005, 02:10 PM
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Can't say I have. Never been on a blind date. I have rather high standards and don't want to risk a blind date being fugly. Sure they might have an awesome personality, but what good is that if I don't find you attractive? Yeah, maybe I'm a dick, maybe I'm a tad bit shallow, oh well what can you do?
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08-28-2005, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Weiser
maybe I'm a dick, maybe I'm a tad bit shallow
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I think the two go together. HAHAHA!
Stone...I remember that old man from last year from your posts! That was funny as h*ll.
I used to get set up on blind dates from officer wife friends....and I've been stuck with a few doozies! I was just in it for the free dinner and beer though...................... no pride here.
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08-28-2005, 04:55 PM
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I went out with a gal and didn't want anyone to know about it. She was a nice girl but a bit of a nutjob which was part of the problem.
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08-28-2005, 05:56 PM
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It did happen a couple of times. One of them was 20 years older than I - dated him for 4 months (highschool, I was experimenting, I dumped the poor guy the minute I got bored). I did try to hide it, but our town was such a small one!
The second one was a guy 8 years older that I - also in highschool. I think I've told you guys about him, he was a player. So I kept our dates a secret, as the guy had a really nasty reputation - I think he slept with half the living females in my town. I was right to keep him in the closet too.
The relationship died on its own, but I did keep a torch for the guy - you know, with him being a bad boy and all!
Other than that... I dated a few weirdos that I wish I had the brains not to be seen in public with, LOL.
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08-28-2005, 06:26 PM
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I dated a 29 year old austrailian girl for a little while last summer (I was 22 at the time). Older women are fun 
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08-28-2005, 07:56 PM
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Thats nothing, I dated a gal off and on who was 11 years older than me and married.
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08-29-2005, 01:54 AM
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i would never regret a date...and not cause im desperate, but because i give everybody a chance who knows what the right girl looks like.
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08-29-2005, 02:11 AM
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I'm confused da, haven't you chosen against going out with certain gals based soley off of looks or did I merely mis-interperate a few of your posts?
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08-29-2005, 02:21 AM
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i wont approach girls because of looks, but if they approach me i wont say no.
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08-29-2005, 02:23 AM
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Huh?
Now I'm really confused. Are you saying that you won't discriminate on who you approach regardless of how they look or are you just saying you won't approach anyone?
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08-29-2005, 02:29 AM
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im saying i discriminate if i approach
if they approach me or appear to like me then i give anybody a chance. They have to chase me.
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08-29-2005, 02:30 AM
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So which type is it that you will approach?
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