checking somebody out

darkangelism · 04-05-2005, 07:07 PM

Today in class i kept noticing that the girl that i like kept looking over at me, but im not sure if she was checking me out, or just seeing if i was checking her out(which i was). I caught her once with my gaze and didnt break it until she turned away after a few seconds.

Merika · 04-05-2005, 08:14 PM

Make a male friend and go play some pool. Girls are fickle and goofy. Entertain yourself until the time is right....and this will be easy...instead of becoming a daily chore.

darkangelism · 04-05-2005, 08:48 PM

my guy friends all have gfs so they are unable to go places without them, and i suck at pool.

The vast majority of my friends are girls.

There is nothing that i can do to not think about girls, even sitting around playing violent video games doesnt help. That is the closest i can get, TV doesnt help, going places doesnt help, girls are everywhere, so i might as well embrace the fact that i have to deal with them daily.

Paul · 04-05-2005, 11:10 PM

It wasn't until I finally stopped looking for someone that I found someone. You've probably heard that before and it may sound dumb but it's true.

Duke · 04-05-2005, 11:11 PM

da, you're not even trying. Every time a suggestion is made, you do your best to come up with an excuse as to why it wouldn't work for you. Don't play pool then, play tennis, chess, badminton, water polo, or just play with yourself, anything.

You can't tell me that every guy that you know is hooked up, that's statistically impossible (not due to women to men ratio, just promiscuous women to men ratio).

darkangelism · 04-05-2005, 11:35 PM

i never said every guy i know is hooked up, just the ones that are my friends, i only have a handful of guy friends here, most of my guy friends i went to HS with and are not around here.

As for not trying and having something happen that doesnt really work, there are some cases where it does, but more then likely if you tried all along you still would have been with the person. We had this discussion in my group counselling and that exact thing was discussed and pretty much shot down about waiting.

Anyway, whats waiting gonna do now for me, so i stop trying with girls and wait around for somebody to like me? That isnt gonna happen, i dont have anything that makes me better then anybody else that any girl would want or know about anyway.

or maybe im misunderstanding what you are saying.

dogula · 04-05-2005, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by darkangelism

Today in class i kept noticing that the girl that i like kept looking over at me, but im not sure if she was checking me out, or just seeing if i was checking her out(which i was). I caught her once with my gaze and didnt break it until she turned away after a few seconds.

You probably had mustard on your cheek. In fact, that is the only possible explanation.

darkangelism · 04-05-2005, 11:58 PM

She told me to call her to hang out sometime, she probably does like me, but i can never be sure.

dogula · 04-06-2005, 12:01 AM

She probably has napkins, she just wasn't carrying them at the time. I'm telling you, this explanation works...

darkangelism · 04-06-2005, 12:10 AM

with tomato sauce, not mustard, i had pizza right b4.

dogula · 04-06-2005, 12:32 AM

I was on to something. This could become your trademark move, just get tomato sauce all over your face and shirt and you will get plenty of people checking you out.

Duke · 04-06-2005, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by dogula

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Originally Posted by darkangelism

Today in class i kept noticing that the girl that i like kept looking over at me, but im not sure if she was checking me out, or just seeing if i was checking her out(which i was). I caught her once with my gaze and didnt break it until she turned away after a few seconds.

You probably had mustard on your cheek. In fact, that is the only possible explanation.

rofl, good to see you dogula, you kill me.

da, it seems to me that you simply can't live without a gal in your life and your so desperate and needy that you don't have a snowballs hope in hell of ever landing one. I don't mean wait for it to happen as much as I mean don't be a tard and jump every time a girl turns in your direction and happens to look at you because that's the direction she was sneezing in.

Honestly, you put so much emphasis all the time on getting a gal and so much pressure on yourself to do it that there's no way you look like anything other than silly puddy whenever you approach a gal. Paul said it best, stop trying to make it happen and it likely will happen.

Merika · 04-06-2005, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul C

It wasn't until I finally stopped looking for someone that I found someone. You've probably heard that before and it may sound dumb but it's true.

Sound familiar DA? I think I've said this for the last year or so I've known you.

darkangelism · 04-06-2005, 09:00 AM

I dont see how not trying to make it happen works, because then i just become invisible to girls. Its not like i naturally attract them, if i dont try then i get ignored, i just end up not interacting with them at all. So when i meet a girl that i like i just dont do anything so they have no idea i like them that sounds like it works real well.

EDIT:

I posted a long paragraph that i now regret and take off, it showed a very unhealthy set of ideas.