Being unreasonable for no apparent reason...

[Luba]

I was going to put this in the Adult forum, but then I thought it might have something to do with aging...
This morning, as usual on a Monday especially, I couldn't find my keys. So, the more I looked for them, the more anxious I became. I asked my husband if he borrowed them to unlock his workshop, he said, "No". This is where the unreasonable part came in! I just kept at him that he must have borrowed them because I couldn't find them in my usual place(s). He was getting upset and I was getting more unreasonable, and then I found them in the very bottom of my purse where I had looked previously though very quickly.
I offered an apology because I had gotten myself in a "dither", but the apology came out very hollow!
The sad part of this action of mine is I had no apparent reason to get so upset, I didn't get up late, I had lots of time to walk to the bus, I was dressed and ready...and I don't usually act this way at all and I don't suffer from anxiety...unless this is the start of it...!
It definitely coloured my day because I couldn't figure out what this was all about...
Do things like this happen to any of you?

[Star]

I've done that a few times to my husband about keys or my cigarettes. I automatically think he's the one who took them if they're not in the usual places that i leave them. 99% of those times, it was me who misplaced them. He's done that to me also though.

When I do that, i feel a sense of panic. only for a couple minutes then it goes away. it's weird.

[Duke]

I think it's just a build up of emotion that overwhelmes you sometimes and I believe it to be perfectly normal. If your snapping all the time such as I did, then it may be a sign of a deeper personal issue.

[Paul]

nope, never had it happen to me

[Duke]

Your telling me you've never been unreasonable, lmao. :eek

You may want to think just a wee bit harder on that one, like say a few years back in a certain admin forum ;-)

Not like I'm the posterboy for restraint either :?

[Paul]

nope, never had it happen to me









I hope you realized it was sarcasm of course, it's a part of daily life that I've been slowly overcoming, I'm doing much better now.

[Luba]

Thanks for your responses, friends, I did feel like a heel because it was so uncalled for!
Actually, my husband was great about it at suppertime, and he joked about maybe putting a nail on my chair to hang my keys on, but he knew it wouldn't help because we'd just go through it again next weekend!
I told him I was going to concentrate on putting my keys in the same place every time because this really taught me a lesson; but he just slowly grinned...

[Merika]

Originally Posted by Paul

nope, never had it happen to me

Ofcourse not...you've got that little flap in the back to store all your stuff in Tator head! HAHA!

Ofcourse on a bad day...you could end up like this:

[Duke]

lmao