Attraction isn't a choice

[Paul]

In the past while, I've gotten a few opportunities to put into practise all the stuff I've been learning about creating attraction and I have to say it's going very well for me. When done right it's some pretty powerful stuff!

Humor is by far the best tool for this, being cocky and funny as we discussed before. For the past few months I've been trying a few things here and there, joking and teasing with waitresses and cashiers, practising opening sets (a group of girls) at a couple local clubs, nothing major or time consuming as this isn't a huge focus in my life, just something I'm dealing with over time.

From all the valuable lessons I've learnt in the past year, I've pretty much sworn off dating but that doesn't mean I won't see girls, even a couple different ones at the same time. I'm also very open about this, there's no good to come from lying about the fact that you like to see more then one person at a time so I don't beat around the bush.

I've also learnt some amazing things about raising your status and raising your standards, not putting up with b.s. attitudes and tantrums. Also using the skills I've learned to create fun situations and direct my life the way I want it to go.

[Paul]

This is a very important and sensitive subject for some men who struggle with these issues daily and now that I've had a measure of success with the systems I've learnt, I really feel it's my responsibility to help other men with this. This is something that, once handled, not only affects your love life but also your other areas of your personal and business life.

I've removed my previous post containing the story because it was pretty long and no one seemed that interested, as in no responses, but I want to make the point that in a very short period of time I was able to create attraction with someone I was interested in. This has been a great experience for both of us, one that we wouldn't have had unless I'd taken the time to learn more about myself and take the opportunity to apply it to my life.

Don't miss out on the chance to have a larger amount of more rewarding relationships, if this is something you're struggling with then stop spending your time feeling bad about it and take some action to improve yourself and your life. If you want to know where to begin, I wrote an article back on April 26th, 2006 called Dating - A Basic Guide that I'd like to share which I think is a good starting point. Read through it, post some feedback if you'd like but most importantly, use it to make a positive change so you can start living the life you deserve.

Take a look at the Dating Guide here .

[Weiser]

Crap I knew I forgot to respond to something. It was an awesome story and it made me happy that there are other guys out there who know what to do.

[Paul]

Thanks Weiser, I appreciate that a lot and it's no problem. It's great to have people such as yourself who know what I'm talking about, that can discuss this subject.

If anyone has any questions or wants to discuss this further, feel free to make use of this forum.