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03-01-2008, 05:37 PM
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to ask or not to ask
Ok my friend asked me to ask people i know this question. She was dating this guy for about a month then he slept with this girld from work that he had wanted but she had a bf up until then. He then tells my friend that he needs space for awhile and will contact her when he wants to talk again. My friend is impatient and wants to contact him now(about 5 days) and say she wants to just be friends. Should she wait for him or contact him now?
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03-01-2008, 05:39 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
If I understand things correctly, a kick in the nuts would be more appropriate.
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03-01-2008, 05:40 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
If it was me, I wouldn't contact him at all! If he has his space and contacts me and wants me to be friends, that's ALL that there might be...but he would have to PROVE his Sincerity...otherwise, he'd be pushed to the 'Acquaintance' category.
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03-01-2008, 06:06 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
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If I understand things correctly, a kick in the nuts would be more appropriate.
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Yup, thats the sound of the hammer hitting the nail squarely on the head. |
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03-01-2008, 06:15 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
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Yup, thats the sound of the hammer hitting the nail squarely on the head.
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You mean: 
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03-01-2008, 06:25 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
Pretty much, the guys a sleaze bag so why she'd want to talk to him is beyond me.
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03-01-2008, 07:06 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
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Pretty much, the guys a sleaze bag so why she'd want to talk to him is beyond me.
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Because, for some odd reason, it seems that that is the type of guy that 99.9% of women go for...  |
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03-01-2008, 07:29 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
So getting treated like dirt is desirable, c'mon ladies say it isn't so.
I can say though that when I was more of an a-hole I got way more dates than when I caught this airborne disease called a conscience.
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03-01-2008, 07:52 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
yeah well she is willing to let him back in which is stupid of her, but i guess she has to learn the hard way
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03-01-2008, 08:15 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
I agree with Vautrin!
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03-01-2008, 09:25 PM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
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yeah well she is willing to let him back in which is stupid of her, but i guess she has to learn the hard way
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Sad but true me thinks. |
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03-02-2008, 12:03 AM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
so she tried to contact him and he is ignoring her and she is all depressed, and i try to be supportive, but some of me is glad he is gone.
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03-02-2008, 12:08 AM
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Re: to ask or not to ask
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