Sponges and Privacy

Rock · 05-13-2005, 12:52 PM

I added this to my "Roomate Thread" but I guess it is a seperate topic.

Andrea does not know about the issue that I have been dealing with recently with Angela. I really don't need any more advise about this.

But something has happened to make me wonder if she somehow knows or what she is thinking. I really don't know how she could know what has happened.

Last night I got home from work about 11:30 and went to the bathroom. Of course I was wearing shorts. On the sink was an opened box of "TODAY" contraceptive sponges.

This seemed very strange to me because she is not sexually active. She has enormous issues with sex. I cannot imagine she is having sex. But I would think that such an item would be more descretely hidden or at least placed in a more private location by anyone.

Stone · 05-13-2005, 12:54 PM

Are you sure she is not sexually active?

Rock · 05-13-2005, 01:10 PM

I do not watch her all the time. But I just cannot imagine she is.

Stone · 05-13-2005, 01:13 PM

Well it sure looks like she is, maby she had a one nighter :?

Rock · 05-13-2005, 01:22 PM

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Well it sure looks like she is, maby she had a one nighter :?

This would be VERY SHOCKING. I think the probability of this is so small that it is just not possible. There must be another explaination but I cannot think of a better one. I think it is just as rude or ruder for her to leave these items out for public viewing as it is for me to walk frommy room to the bathroom wearing underwear. Do you think I should speak with her?

Stone · 05-13-2005, 01:26 PM

Nope leave it alone, maby she left them there for your attention. If you give it to her she'll just react badly.

BTW is there anyway she has a crush on you? Is that your pic?

Rock · 05-13-2005, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Stone

Nope leave it alone, maby she left them there for your attention. If you give it to her she'll just react badly.

BTW is there anyway she has a crush on you? Is that your pic?

Why would she want to get my attention this way? I had a crush on her at one time but it did not lead to anything but being friends and then roomates when we both were desperate. She does not act like she likes me in any deeper way than she ever has.

What is a "pic?" I do not understand your question.

Stone · 05-13-2005, 01:38 PM

Pic= Picture in your avatar?

Rock · 05-13-2005, 01:45 PM

It is a "head-shot" from my modeling portfolio. Do you think I should change it? I have noticed that only derangedangel and me have "pics" for our avatars and have though maybe I should have something more like a cartoon or something.

Why would Andrea want to get my attention this way?

Stone · 05-13-2005, 02:04 PM

WOW your a very good looking man. You don't have to change your avatar, we all put pics up once in awhile I won't now because I am pregasouous :hellcow: but after I have the baby I will.

Chicks are weird, maby she wants you to wonder about her sex life :?

Rock · 05-13-2005, 02:52 PM

I wonder why she would fake having a sex life all of the sudden? She has never really had an issue with not having one. I have never seen her with a boyfriend. She is attractive and could easily have one. She is very intimidated by what she says has been very bad experiences. This is why I would be so surprised if she was really having sex.

Duke · 05-13-2005, 03:30 PM

Maybe she left them out there for you and her.

Just throwing it out there.

Star · 05-13-2005, 04:25 PM

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On the sink was an opened box of "TODAY" contraceptive sponges.

I have never heard of today's contraceptive sponges before now. What are those?? I haven't had to use birth control in say like umm 16 years so i guess i'm out of the loop when it comes to that. :?

I say that she probably is sexually active Rock. Youmentioned before that you're not at home a whole lot so she's probably planning her "randez-vous" while you're out. I know that a lot of people didn't suspect me to be sexually active when I was but I was. She might of left those on the sink by accident. Forgot they were there. I wouldn't mention anything to her and would respect her privacy.

Rock · 05-13-2005, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Duke

Maybe she left them out there for you and her.

That seems odd even by her standards.

Duke · 05-14-2005, 07:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Duke

Maybe she left them out there for you and her.

That seems odd even by her standards.

So the answer is that you don't know? You said that you were attracted to her at one point I believe, what's to say it isn't mutual? The fact is, as a man, you can never completely know her intentions.

I say, ask her what they were doing there.