new motivation

darkangelism · 06-01-2005, 10:35 PM

I found new motivation, to try and be a happy confident person, my siblings. I cant do it for me because i dont care about myself, i do stupid reckless things, but they care about me and if im not better mentally i cant be there for them when they need me.

Duke · 06-01-2005, 11:59 PM

I hope it works but I'm not entirely sure that this new way of thinking will help you much. It's just a matter of time before you return to the same, depressed, lost soul that you know and hate so well. The only way you can hope to beat the way you feel about your issues is when you learn to care about yourself. If you don't can't love yourself what chances do you have of finding others who love you?

Also, this change you are planning on making is only a mask and not one that will fool the opposite sex into being attracted to you.

Just my 2 cents CDN.

Merika · 06-02-2005, 10:04 AM

Maybe not just to build confidence...but focusing on someone besides yourself....kids/siblings/family.... always gives you a new perspctive. Sometimes people are miserable because all they focus on is their own life and the parts of it which they don't think it perfect....instead of realizing that life isn't about getting a perfect end result.....it's about enjoying the trip.