In my months of greif, seperation, years of horrible relationships and depression I am finally getting professional help from a local church psycoligist, and we have come to the conclusion that I am Co-Dependant and will start going to group sessions tonight.
I have to get my emotional life under control for the kids and now understanding what it is that I actually "have" I feel a sense of freedom.
and am actully understanding why I continue to choose to get involved in relationships with Junkies, Alcholics and am always unfuifilled but at the same time afraid to be alone.
If anyone is intrested in learning more about Co-Dependancy here is a great link
http://www.nmha.org/infoctr/factsheets/43.cfm