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02-17-2005, 10:17 PM
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when a friend does something you dont like
One of my friend's totally stood me up today, she told me twice that she would call me to go to this indian thing at school, i went to the bar before it, then left and waited for her to call, when it was 15 mins after the event started i called her and she didnt answer. im kinda mad, but im not sure if i should act like its no big deal, or say something, or act pissed and not talk to her.
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02-17-2005, 10:47 PM
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I would ask her what happened to her last night...tomorrow. You have to say something or she'll think it's okay to treat you this way.
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02-17-2005, 10:55 PM
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she called me back, with a lame excuse that she didnt understand my message...i am unfortunatly weak, and because she looks good i find it hard to be mad at her and she is gonna try and help me get with her friend so i forgave her for not calling me.
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02-17-2005, 11:47 PM
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You should have let her have it d00d. You know the excuse is lame but you rolled over anyway?
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02-17-2005, 11:53 PM
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yeah, im weak, she was like, lets go to the movies tomorrow, so i said ok.
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02-18-2005, 08:02 AM
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Actually, Star is right. However, maybe she just ended up not wanting to go and didn't want to hurt your feelings. Sometimes I change my mind about going somewhere also. I guess it would be different if it were a 'date'. Then again, I'm prone to break those also.  |
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02-18-2005, 11:03 AM
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yeah that sounds like what she did, she never says no up front.
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02-18-2005, 02:29 PM
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i was thinking about this today and i realized that i do this same thing to others, where i slowly cancel stuff, i should have realized it earlier because she acts so much like me.
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02-18-2005, 02:46 PM
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perhaps she was doing a payback?
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02-18-2005, 02:49 PM
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i havnt done it to her, we have only been friends for 3 months
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02-18-2005, 03:39 PM
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Tell her it is no big deal if she ever feels like canceling but you would at least like to know a few hours in advance so you can make other arangements.
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02-18-2005, 10:20 PM
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Good point SH.
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02-19-2005, 11:52 AM
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To me.....a REALLY good friend is one you can say NO to without guilt.  |
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02-19-2005, 12:43 PM
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i agree, there is only one friend that i have like that, and even still i feel guilty about saying no sometimes.
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02-19-2005, 12:49 PM
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