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[Adonaicole]

Adonicle did she ever say why she prefered women to men?

I don't know that she prefered women to me, she was just less experienced when it came to men and a little afraid. Why she was afraid, I don't know, something different? I have to tell you the whole story.

...What a long strange trip it's been...

I was living in Bellingham, which is in the Northwesternest corner of the U.S.. She was living in San Diego, in the very Southwesternest corner of the U.S.. How could our paths have ever crossed?

I had recently broken up with a girlfriend (and so had she). It was a mutual breakup, so I was not sad, but I was all alone. I went for a walk to enjoy the spring sunshine and there she was, she was gorgeous, sittling alone at an outdoor cafe, sipping her coffee, like a model for a coffee commercial (I would buy that coffee). She was wearing a waist-cut jean jacket, wisps of her blonde hair fluttering in the wind, like the spray from some golden waterfall. Her smile was the only invitation I needed to go up and start a conversation with her. We clicked from the beginning, like two friends who had planned to meet for coffee at that outdoor cafe. She told me all about herself and I told her all about me. She had come to Bellingham to visit a girlfriend, later she explained that it was an ex-"girlfriend" and asked me if that bothered me. I told her no, I was just enjoying her company. The funny thing about her living in San Diego was that I was moving to San Diego in a month to go to school there. She told me that I should look her up when I got there, her name was Tiffany and she wrote her name and address in the most beautiful, expressive handwriting.

I didn't think much of her in the month that followed, I was busy with finals and preparations for moving to San Diego. When I got down there and settled in, I gave her a call. She was very warm and friendly and she invited me over, we talked every day over the course of a week and she asked me if I would like to go out dancing with her. Of course I agreed, not knowing what I was getting myself into. I didn't know if I was in heaven or in hell. On the one hand, I was surrounded by 80 women, I was the only man in the club. On the other hand, they all seemed more interested in my girl than in me...hmmm....strange, but she paid them no mind and only danced with me. I slept with her that night, the smooth curve of her backside nestled up close to me, which was enough to drive me crazy (so now you know why I'm crazy). Of course I tried to convince her that there was more that a man and woman could do but she was a little trepidaceous. She was very comfortable with me, but uncomfortable with the idea of making love to a man (heaven forbid!). When we out for a couple weeks after that, we went for swims (she looked great in a bikini) we went for walks in the park, to all who saw us, we looked just like lovers, holding hands, kissing, warm embraces, but secretly we were not lovers. It was more than I could take, to be so close to her and so far away so I drifted away.

[Merika]

I think in some rare instances there is a gene mess up and people can be born with an odd set of sexual preference. For the thousands of people who claim to be gay or bi - I think they have either watched too much TV or have experienced some other emotional trauma. It's the 'in' thing and personally....I think it's stupid.

I did read about the woman who decided to 'marry' her dog. I guess that will be the next trend. :?

[darkangelism]

i really dont wanna know what her sex life is like.

[Vautrin]

Originally Posted by darkangelism

i really dont wanna know what her sex life is like.

Hey,

regardless whether or not she cheat, the dog will still be barking at her. And not getting a divorce. So she does not have a bad deal at all. Wonder what would happen, when she would not have made a will, and dies before the dog does...

[Duke]

Do you really think that gay/bi or whatever is a fashionalbe choice? I'm not sure if I agree with that because it seems odd to me to switch partners because someone thinks it loox cool. I believe it's more of a need to satisfy a curiosity and is much more frequent these days than ever in history simply because of how liberal we've all become.

[sweetbilly]

Do you really think that gay/bi or whatever is a fashionalbe choice? I'm not sure if I agree with that because it seems odd to me to switch partners because someone thinks it loox cool.

Appearantly you haven't seen what's really going on in the school system today. There seems to be this new fad among little boys today, wearing pink! Appearantly wearing pink is the way in which little boys, whom think they are gay, display their sexual orientation in school. They don't even know the difference between love and sex yet and yet somehow they already know they are gay, it's so sad. So yes, unbelievable as it may seem, it is cool to be a seven-year-old homosexual today. It's like our schools have become a series of San Fransisco bathhouses or something, a place to pick up other seven-year-old homosexuals!! I fully expect to someday walk into an elementary school somewhere and see a glory hole in the bathroom wall!!!! The sad thing is it probably wouldn't even shock me to tell ya the truth.

I've already personally seen highschool teachers make their students into their homosexual lovers before they have even graduated, and this was ten years ago when i was in school!!!! I know this isn't the popular belief today but at the time we actually thought it was disgusting for a teacher to do, period! I can't even imagine the kind of crap they are teaching/doing to kids today. I can't believe people have allowed this kind of behavior to go this far. I really believe this is the direct result of gay political groups invading the public school systems trying to change the public attitude about homosexuality. They know the best way to change the public attitude about homosexuality is to make our children gay; very few parents would disaprove homosexuals if their own kids were gay, wouldn't they?. I will never, if i have anything to say about it, allow my children to go to public schools today they are horrible in every respect, not just moraly but academically as well. That is if i ever have any kids LOL.

[Merika]

I agree with that Duke...I think alot of it is curiosity. Maybe some people just have sex so often after beginning at a young age.....they've run out of new stuff to do. I remember after I was first married....I was just happy to have regular sex without worrying about getting caught and being in trouble. We didn't get bored with it to the point of trying to jazz it up for quite awhile. LOL!

Even now... plain sex is good for me. I don't need props, toys and a third party to make it exciting.

[Vautrin]

So letting little girls dress as if they were 8 year old hookers is fine?

As for the differation between love and sex, quite a lot of adults in their 20's and beyond cannot make such a distinction. Now, and 50 years ago. And what can be done about it? Should anyone, who is willing to engage in sexual activities (assuming they can legally consent, which probably does not apply to about half the children for the first time they have sex), take a test or something before he or she is allowed to do that?

[darkangelism]

its scary the way kids dress, sometimes there are girls that are like 15 and im like wow they are hot then i find out their age and im like ewww no.

[Duke]

Are you sure that wearing pink is a fad that states your gay in school sweetbilly, if so, its the first I've heard of it? Wearing a color doesn't make you something, you are what you are regardless.

If little kids are wearing pink they are likely doing it because on or more of the kids they look up to thinks its fashionable, not because of their sexual preferences.

Also, what age are you referring to when you say little boys? You can't honestly think that a little boy truly knows what gay means (again age dependant).

[Adonaicole]

My son is 7 and knows what gay is and he wouldn't be caught dead wearing pink.

[Duke]

Thats your son, thats not everyones son.

If your 7 year old truly understands the meaning of gay and sexual preference other than a vague idea then he's far ahead of most of the population.

[darkangelism]

yeah when i was that age i wore pink.

[Merika]

I never really thought about it because I've seen some great looking dress shirts on men which were pink or had pink in them. Come to think of it though....my son wouldn't wear a pink tshirt or anything though. He still considers it a 'girly' color.