when friends make judgements on girls

darkangelism · 04-03-2005, 06:22 PM

Today when i was at school i was with one group of friends and one of my other friends talked to me and after she left they were all telling me that i should go out with her, something that isnt gonna happen. It is frustating cause i wish it could be like that.

Vautrin · 04-03-2005, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by darkangelism

after she left they were all telling me that i should go out with her, something that isnt gonna happen. It is frustating cause i wish it could be like that.

DA, the only thing that can happen is that she rejects your invitation to go out with her. You have already written it, now, do you send the invitation, or keep it at home?

darkangelism · 04-03-2005, 07:50 PM

i have asked her out and she said no, though she seems to like me.

Merika · 04-03-2005, 07:53 PM

Maybe we should go over exactly what you say when you ask a girl out. Are you hining that you want a girlfriend or are you casually asking if someone wants to hang out or what?

darkangelism · 04-03-2005, 09:58 PM

it depends, i try to ask them to hang out or get something to eat, but with her we were friends and so i didnt, i forget exactly how it all happened, i think i told her that i liked her. At this point i have pretty much given up, we hang out at my place or whatever, but nothing happens.

The other girl i like i havnt messed it up yet, i have just been talking to her, call her sometimes or IM her. I havnt made a move yet.

Duke · 04-04-2005, 12:20 AM

Good, don't make a move, just keep up the hard work, try and create some intimate moments and see how she responds to them. Keep it all low key though if you can.

darkangelism · 04-04-2005, 09:52 AM

ok, that shouldnt be to hard, me and her have to work together on our part of a group project.

Paul · 04-04-2005, 04:44 PM

Good luck with it DA, keep it up and don't get discouraged, it'll pay off eventually!!

darkangelism · 04-04-2005, 05:59 PM

The not getting discouraged is the hard part. That and not screwing up.

Duke · 04-04-2005, 08:43 PM

Among two of the most important parts lol.

darkangelism · 04-04-2005, 09:19 PM

Yeah, i usually shoot myself in the foot. The strangest part is the fact that the girl i was talking about in the monday thread wants me to go out with the girl from this thread.

04-03-2005, 06:22 PM	#1
darkangelism Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: oklahoma Posts: 5,893	when friends make judgements on girls Today when i was at school i was with one group of friends and one of my other friends talked to me and after she left they were all telling me that i should go out with her, something that isnt gonna happen. It is frustating cause i wish it could be like that.

04-03-2005, 07:50 PM	#3
darkangelism Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: oklahoma Posts: 5,893	i have asked her out and she said no, though she seems to like me. __________________

04-03-2005, 09:58 PM	#5
darkangelism Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: oklahoma Posts: 5,893	it depends, i try to ask them to hang out or get something to eat, but with her we were friends and so i didnt, i forget exactly how it all happened, i think i told her that i liked her. At this point i have pretty much given up, we hang out at my place or whatever, but nothing happens. The other girl i like i havnt messed it up yet, i have just been talking to her, call her sometimes or IM her. I havnt made a move yet. __________________

04-04-2005, 12:20 AM	#6
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 25,259	Good, don't make a move, just keep up the hard work, try and create some intimate moments and see how she responds to them. Keep it all low key though if you can. __________________ My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

04-04-2005, 09:52 AM	#7
darkangelism Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: oklahoma Posts: 5,893	ok, that shouldnt be to hard, me and her have to work together on our part of a group project. __________________

04-03-2005, 07:53 PM	#4
Merika Retired Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida, USA Posts: 13,207	Maybe we should go over exactly what you say when you ask a girl out. Are you hining that you want a girlfriend or are you casually asking if someone wants to hang out or what?

04-04-2005, 04:44 PM	#8
Paul Trusted Resource Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 1,751	Good luck with it DA, keep it up and don't get discouraged, it'll pay off eventually!!

04-04-2005, 05:59 PM	#9
darkangelism Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: oklahoma Posts: 5,893	The not getting discouraged is the hard part. That and not screwing up. __________________

04-04-2005, 08:43 PM	#10
Duke Founder Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Under your bed. My Communication Style: Honest, Supportive Posts: 25,259	Among two of the most important parts lol. __________________ My Daughter Rules! "Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. Then, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes."

04-04-2005, 09:19 PM	#11
darkangelism Veteran Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: oklahoma Posts: 5,893	Yeah, i usually shoot myself in the foot. The strangest part is the fact that the girl i was talking about in the monday thread wants me to go out with the girl from this thread. __________________

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