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[darkangelism]

well my friends(the last girl i dated) boyfriend, didnt do anything for valentines day with her, i said happy valentines before he did to her and i did say it until 3pm. So she was mad and so i said he was a sh!thead and then he found out and we had a big fight over text messaging, and we worked it out, but i hate fighting.

[Meanon]

If she told him then she probably likes the idea of guys fighting over her. You may have to be more careful what you say if she's going to use it for ammunition

[Duke]

Geeze da, the women you hook up with actually make the women I hook up with look normal by comparison.

I wonder if maybe I'm just being too picky?

[darkangelism]

well now me and him talked directly so it wont happen again, cause ill just talk to him in that situation.

[Duke]

I think what you need to start doing is just keeping your opinion to yourself when your around your friends because all it seems to do is get you in hot water.

[Vautrin]

Originally Posted by Duke

Geeze da, the women you hook up with actually make the women I hook up with look normal by comparison.

I wonder if maybe I'm just being too picky?

You want to hook up with people like that? At least that is what you are suggesting. I suspect there was an insufficient amount of caffeine in your blood when you wrote that.

Meanon is right. If a person is not your boyfriend / girlfriend there is no reason to congratulate them on V-Day. So don't.

Of course, it does not hold true for anti-Valentine's Day wishes ().

[darkangelism]

Originally Posted by Vautrin

Meanon is right. If a person is not your boyfriend / girlfriend there is no reason to congratulate them on V-Day. So don't.

I dont know about that, me and her say "i love you" to each other so me saying "happy v-day" is not unreasonable.

[Duke]

Originally Posted by darkangelism

I dont know about that, me and her say "i love you" to each other so me saying "happy v-day" is not unreasonable.

Ya but that's not exactly normal either.

[IvyRose]

Originally Posted by darkangelism

I dont know about that, me and her say "i love you" to each other so me saying "happy v-day" is not unreasonable.

OMG... Men and women can't really be friends, not like that. There's usually sexual tension going on both sides or at least one side.

I used to think men and women could be close friends, but I get proved wrong time and time again. Friends don't say, "I love you" nor do they kiss each other with the lights down low, listening to Barry White.

You two are side 'booty calls' for each other, just admit it. You both are going to be lethal for each other's relationships if this friction keeps happening.

*Sigh* To be young again.

[Duke]

I'd really listen to what Ivy is saying because she's right on the money. Of course of it's the old "luv ya", kiss-kiss type stuff then it's not uncommon but if you actually say you love each other then that's really not normal at all unless your in a relationship that is.

[darkangelism]

well we dont kiss but yeah it is a weird friendship, both of mine with the two girls are, and yes boys and girls can be friends, i have done it with my best friend in college and we were not attracted to each other and thats why it worked.

however in this case i wouldnt say we are booty calls, i havnt even seen her in six weeks, we just text and talk on the phone maybe once a week. and they both live near each other and go to the same university. But i see one more then once a week and the other barely at all.

[IvyRose]

You're saying that if this girl, who got you in trouble with her boyfriend, were to call you crying. Saying things like, "My boyfriend and I broke up," you wouldn't console her and it become sexual?

What she did to you was wrong. She wants attention from both you and her boyfriend. She's playing you both. I'm sorry you don't see that right now, but DA, women can be vicious in all sorts of ways.

Both of you broke up, the "I love you's" shouldn't keep being said. You live your life how you want to, I'm not here to judge you. You want to play the field, that's fine. I'm just afraid that this girl is going to get you beat up or hang your heart on a string for the wolves to gnaw at.

Women know women. Take advice from another woman. This girl is definately playing dangerously and she's not acting like a true friend.

[TKDLady]

Very well said IvyRose.

[darkangelism]

no it wouldnt become sexual, at least i doubt it would, me and her only dated as rebounds for our exs, we never really clicked for it to work. Now my ex on