Rumours

[twinkle]

I hate them.

Eversince I went on that trip to the USA four months ago, with some of my classmates, there have been a lot of rumours running around about me. I went up to a party last night and ran into a collegueof mine, Sam, that wasn't even with us on that trip and started making some sleezy allusions about my behaviour on the trip.

For instance:

Sam: "I hear you were wearing some foxy pyjamas whie on the trip."
Me: "yeah, snickers and a top. My room mate was wearing a short nightgown". No one even bothered to share the detail.

or

Sam: "oh, I hear you had some guys on the bed with you. They were really horny".
me: "what??????? 2 of them were staying on my bed - we only had 2 bedroom and there were 6 of us - and we were talking. They also stayed on my room mates bed and... hey, it's her that ended up sleeping with one of the guys in our group - sleeping as in sharing the same bed".
Again, that detail was not communicated.

Someone's having lots of fun spreading dirt about me and the thing is... I can't do a damn thing about it. I know who is doing it also, a male "friend" :roll: . Sh!t, thanks Lord I'm not gonna meet those people too often from now on.

But it's so frustrating, I don't want them to think I'm a skank, what am I s'pposed to do, explain myself? If I start talking about that, I'd only raise awerness of this, apparently that guy has a sack full of sh!t prepared for most people around him.

I swear, sometimes I just wanna puke. Men can be such b!tches at times.

[Luba]

Sounds like this guy is a real ****!
You know who you are, Twinkle, that's what counts. People that are your friends won't believe anything bad about you, and those that do, aren't important in your life anyway, IMHO.
Is there anyway you could ask him to just "Stop it"?

[Duke]

Why is he still your friend if he says this sort of stuff about you?

[twinkle]

HE's not a friend, we went to the same Master together and we met when one of our collegue threw a party.

I was thinking - as a fool - not to totally give those people up. I guess I should have listened to my first instinct.

Another male friend (nicer, this time) told me that the same person spoke crap about... almost all girls he had ever been near, except, of course, the sleeziest, LOL!

I guess I shouldn't be that bothered, people have heads on their shoulders for a reason: they're supposed to use it.



Anyhow, after giving it some thought, I've decided not to confront the sucker, because it would give him pleasure in seeing that I'm upset at his crap. Instead, I intend to invite out to drink for a coffee some of the people I really care about. The subject has to pop up and I'll take it from there.

The thing is, that guy is popular, but has NO friends. I just don't get it, what the f*ck, if he says I'm horny and I act ****tish, it's not like he even touched my forearm or something. Who cares :roll: anyway!

[Stone]

Sam's just jellous

[Luba]

Just a thought, Twinkle, but has the ever "come on" to you and is just upset that all you want is friendship...I've heard of people like that...if they can't have you, they'll do everything they can to hurt you...
I may be off totally of base...but other than being a complete jerk, what other reason would he have to say those things to you?

[Star]

twinkle, the guy who's spreding those rumors wants you. You didn't give him what he wants so he's spreading garbage around. ignore it and it (he) will go away eventually.

something similar happened with me when I was 17. This guy kept asking me out and flirting with me and i kept saying no. He had a girlfriend for crying out loud and the girl I knew very well. our families were friends!

my mother was pregnant with my youngest brother at that time so he decides to tell people that my mother is wearing a pillow to cover up the fact that i'm the one pregnant! he told people that i was a tramp (I was a virgin at that age). I left town for awhile and came back before my mother gave birth.

I would laugh at it when people told me the things he was saying to people. Just laugh twinkle. it will stop when the guy finds out that it doesn't bother you and nobody believes him. he's not worth stressing over.

[twinkle]

OMG, Star, speaking of a big jerk!!!

The guy who'd be spreading rumours didmake some come on's on me, but he was sweet talking one of my best friends who was dying after him.

Never ever ever, even if he wanted nothing to have with her, would I have even looked at the guy.

If he did have a thing for me, he was careful enough not to be too obvious. Now that I'm thinking about it, he was always sitting by my side, taking a lot of pictures with me or near me, but given that we were in a group (we were 5), I didn't notice it. I actually thought we were having a good time.


Backstabber!!!

Star, you are right, I don't intend to make a big fuss over it. French men (I even dare say French people) generally have a very dirty mouth anyway, so those who do appreciate me shouldn't believe that crap.

Thanks for your support, people. Now all I'm angry at is waisting a Saturday evening around those losers!

[matthewmurcia]

Just start some credible rumours about him and a homosexual horse or something. Or learn photoshop and make some compromising pictures. Or even combine those two ideas

[Paul]

when I was in grade 6, some kid in grade 9 made up a rumor that I was playing with myself in the washroom. I was so hurt, for the next few months I closed myself off from everyone in the school and spent my time reading in the library.

[Duke]

Originally Posted by matthewmurcia

Just start some credible rumours about him and a homosexual horse or something. Or learn photoshop and make some compromising pictures. Or even combine those two ideas

I can help you with photoshop, I rulez0rz.

[twinkle]

LOL, to tell you the truth, I've always thought the guy is bi to say the least. Too funny !