people from the past

darkangelism · 05-29-2006, 02:57 AM

i ran into a profile on a web community of someone from my past, that well i basically stalked in high school...well stalked is abit extreme, it wasnt that bad, but bad enough that the school got involved...its been almost 8 years now sincee then, and i am thinking about contacting her and seeing if its ok now, as she is probably the only person to ever hate me...on the other hand i feel that even considering it is bad and that i should stay as far away as possible.

Vautrin · 05-29-2006, 09:41 AM

What do you think you would gain from this?

Meanon · 05-29-2006, 04:33 PM

Hi DA

. I think it's a bad idea. Even if she is fine about it now, unexpected contact from you would confuse and maybe scare her, she's unlikely to give you what you want - to make you feel OK about it. We all make mistakes when we are young. You were still a child and I'm sure you've learned from yours so I say let it stay in the past where it remains and can't do any more damage to either of you.

darkangelism · 05-29-2006, 06:35 PM

yeah thats what i thought the response would be and what i wanted to hear.

Merika · 05-30-2006, 08:35 AM

Even if you were just trying to smooth things over she may take it the wrong way and the enxt thing you know you'll have a restraining order on you as an adult and screw up your legal record and possible jobs in the future. I agree with everyone that it is best to leave this one alone.

BattleaxE · 05-31-2006, 09:52 PM

I'm thinking you should leave it where it is in the past. Stay away from that community DA!!!!!

Star · 05-31-2006, 10:51 PM

I have to agree with everyone else here. leave it alone.

you said that you kind of stalked her back then. if it were me, i don't think i'd welcome you into my life in fear of that happening again and now that you're an adult, it could turn criminal. it could be disasterous for you DA.

leave it in the past where it belongs and move ahead.