my cousin

darkangelism · 04-29-2005, 02:25 AM

i got infd about my grandfather's funeral and my cousin who molested me was there and he got fat from drinking and was an ******* to everybody. pardon my language. Im glad i didnt go cause i seriously would have kicked his ass, i havnt seen him in 3 years and well for the sake of him living he should hope i dont ever see him again.

Duke · 04-29-2005, 02:41 AM

Why don't you report the incident?

darkangelism · 04-29-2005, 09:58 AM

to who?

Duke · 04-29-2005, 10:09 AM

Family member, police, crisis hotline?

Your obviously bothered by it, why wouldn't you be? Bottling it up sure isn't helping the situation any.

darkangelism · 04-29-2005, 10:43 AM

police cant do anything, its been to long, family no cause there is already enough drama, i have dealt with it somewhat in counselling, i just get angry with him easily, especially when im drunk like last night.

Star · 04-29-2005, 11:32 AM

DA, this will never go away until you either tell your family and his parents as weel or confront him about it.

The girl who molested me I haven't confronted yet because i have no idea where she is but, the next time i do go take a trip back to my home town, i WILL find her and confront her to let her know the damage she's caused me when she molested me. This is the last thing I need to do to be completely rid of it. I want her to see me, hear me and know that these little kids grow up into adults that aren't scared anymore.

You really need to put this thing at rest DA. I think this has more of an affect on you and your everyday life then you realize. It's probably the core of all your problems.

Because there's enough "drama" in your family is no reason why yours shouldn't be listened to. You need to telll someone in your family about this DA.

Duke · 04-29-2005, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Star

DA, this will never go away until you either tell your family and his parents as weel or confront him about it.

You really need to put this thing at rest DA. I think this has more of an affect on you and your everyday life then you realize. It's probably the core of all your problems.

Because there's enough "drama" in your family is no reason why yours shouldn't be listened to. You need to telll someone in your family about this DA.

Exactly my point but much better put, thanks Star.