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09-26-2008, 08:00 AM
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Kathy's Tragic Loss
Kathy is dealing with the tragic loss of her daughter now who passed away this week. I can barely write this post through the tears. As you already know, she lost her husband to suicide just a short time ago.
At this time Kathy is unable to post due to intense grief and has given me permission to make this post for her.
Let us all wrap her in our loving arms through this incredibly difficult time.
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09-26-2008, 08:05 AM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
What happened to her daughter? Oh my god! How awful.
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09-26-2008, 08:43 AM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
I am so sorry to hear this.
This truly is the most horrific thing that could have happened to her. I hope Kathy can find the strength to deal with all her grief.
 for Kathy
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09-26-2008, 11:46 AM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
Kathy, I'm so shocked and sorry to read this. It's seems especially unfair when you have suffered so much senseless tragedy already. We'll all be thinking of you as you grieve.
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09-26-2008, 12:59 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
I'm terribly sorry to hear about this.
(((((hugs)))))
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09-26-2008, 02:23 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
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09-26-2008, 05:39 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
 am so sorry! 
what is Kathy's username here?
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09-26-2008, 05:52 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
I cannot express properly, in words, how bad I feel for you Kathy. We at lifesupporters will be holding you in our thoughts through your time of grief. Just remember, we will always be here for you no matter what.
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what is Kathy's username here?
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Her username is Kathy.
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09-26-2008, 08:08 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
I am in such shock. I have two kids of my own and the reason I am here is because a close friend almost lost his only son to a drowning. My deepest sympathies to you Kathy. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. My arms are wrapped around you sweetie. 
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09-26-2008, 08:39 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
Thankyou to everyone on here for your support, its such a great help. Thankyou
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09-26-2008, 09:03 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
We are always here for you!
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09-26-2008, 09:18 PM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
Thankyou. I guess i haven't got many people around me now.
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09-27-2008, 08:33 AM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
Do you not have any family near by? No close friends near you to lean on? I hope there are a few. We are all here for you but sometimes you need a real person. I hope you continue to come here. You have become one of the family and I want to help you through this as best as I can. I do think you should go and stay with your closest family or a friend for a few days. I am wrapping my arms around you in the mean time. I know it isn't much coming from a computer but the comfort I want to give and the feelings attached are real. Hugs Kathy.
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09-27-2008, 08:39 AM
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Re: Kathy's Tragic Loss
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Originally Posted by kathy
Thankyou. I guess i haven't got many people around me now.
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I remember you posting about your parents helping look after your daughter. I hope you get on well with them and can turn to them now. You're bound to feel very alone when you have lost so much kathy. But you are such a caring person, I'm sure there are people who love you and will help you - now and in the future. You can see how much people here care and we've not known you very long. You're not alone. | |