I guess I'm the 'Meet The Fockers'....LOL!

Merika · 05-10-2005, 09:17 AM

My daughter in law is a b*tch. I can't saw it anywhere else but here....since I have to respect her for being my son's wife.

She had a baby shower and has this wonderful family....and all she did was sulk and act all cynical. Someone asked what she was naming the baby and she replied "That's MY business.". (I happen to know only because my son told me). THEN, when she announced she had taken 3 months off after the baby is born....she stated NO ONE was to visit the first month. WTF is that? Her Mom and I just looked at each other in embarassment for her.

She has also been upset with my son because he doesn't want the baby to sleep in their bed the first few months. How stupid is that idea anyway?

She doesn't call it 'our baby'....but only 'her baby'. He has no say in anything. I wish I wasn't the mother in law....I would kick her stupid A$$.

Yesterday, I painted her kitchen for her and was p*ssed off the whole time. I wonder just how long I can fake being nice to her? Chloe doesn't like her either. I can't believe he married such a complete LOON!

Stone · 05-10-2005, 09:33 AM

Has she always been a loon or is it since she became pregnant? Some people I am close to have made comments that I have been pretty Bitchy latley... I normaly don't act that way... maby it's just hormones. how far along is she anyway?

I was a complete spaz untill recentely when I hit my 3rd trimester now I am mellow Yellow.... I love it

Star · 05-10-2005, 09:58 AM

I'm sorry that you have a horrible daughter in law. It makes it very hard for everyone when there's a person like that in the family.

I don't understand the logic behind "not having anyone visit for a month after the baby is born". You would think that she would welcome the help! She's in for a rude awakening.

I had a friend who was like that with her baby's father. wouldn't even allow him to be home alone with his own kid! I told her she was off her rocker.

I hope that your daughter in law smartens up after the baby is born. she sounds very hard to get along with.

Stone · 05-10-2005, 10:05 AM

Sounds like this is her 1st kid, not having anyone come over for a month sounds to me like she is afraid of the baby catching germs... witch is a common fear for mothers, she is probably scared and will snap out of it after she is up with no sleep after the 1st few days.

I wouldn't let anyone touch Noah without washing there hands for a few weeks then I let it go. I am not letting anyone come to the hospital untill the day after delivery :?

Star · 05-10-2005, 10:14 AM

I wasn't like that at all. I wouldn't let any kids hold the baby but anyone else could if they wanted to and I did welcome the help so i can sleep or rest a little.

I had family and close friends in the waiting room when i gave birth so i seen them right away. didn't bother me. i knew that everyone was excited especially with krystal since she was the first one for my parents.

Merika · 05-10-2005, 10:31 AM

She was always goofy....but since she's been pregnant she's even slipped further into the whole liberal retard thing. Her family is real Catholic and mine is religious also. But at the baby shower brunch when the hostess said it was time to say 'grace'....my daughter in law's mom said "No, Jae (her name) is here and doesn't allow it". She's just one of those.

Of ALL the girls in the world....I have no idea why he picked this one. Oh...that's right....he didn't. She got PREGNANT the first month they were together. They lost that baby. Then he married her out of guilt because he's a nice guy.

He has a condo on the beach he is now renting out. They moved into 'her' house. She never says this is 'our' house....nor does he have any say so in what she does with it. He's too polite to say anything negative about her....but I know him well enough to know he is thinking it.

She'll have the baby....be all possessive....and this is going to end up breaking his heart. I don't look for the marriage to survive it.

Stone · 05-10-2005, 10:34 AM

That's sad, I can't imagine any child of your marrying a liberal LMAO

She had her shower early how far along is she... and what is she naming the baby?

Star · 05-10-2005, 10:35 AM

doesn't sound like this is a marriage that will survive forever. he'll get tired of her attitude and leave one day. it's too bad that he'll wait until the baby is born.

do you think he loves her or do you think that it's all out of niceness only?

Merika · 05-10-2005, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Star

do you think he loves her or do you think that it's all out of niceness only?

They say boys marry someone who reminds them of their mothers. She is opinionated, bossy and thinks she's always right. So yes....perhaps he does. LMAO!

darkangelism · 05-10-2005, 11:22 AM

thats true, i so like girls who have the personality of my mom.

Merika · 05-10-2005, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by darkangelism

thats true, i so like girls who have the personality of my mom.

It's also true that girls gravitate towards men who remind them of their Dads. I think as people get older though....their views or opinions of their parents change....and maybe that's why what they want in a mate changes.

I wonder if anyone has ever done an in depth study of that? I bet Meanon or Vautrin would know.

Stone · 05-10-2005, 12:32 PM

Greg is just like my dad :? Actually they have become prettty good buds in the last few years :? :x

dogula · 05-11-2005, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Merika

I wonder if anyone has ever done an in depth study of that? I bet Meanon or Vautrin would know.

I'm pretty sure Freud came up with the concept, or atleast was the first big name to propose it. I'm not really all that interested or versed in that subject though.