i can't believe it

megan · 02-27-2007, 06:46 AM

i really find this hard to believe, but today i had my mother in law on the phone going rampant on me saying " You stupid ****ing stupid, why the **** have you put my son in prison, my son would never ever hurt anyone" and alot more was said but i think that is enough. So i have got the blaim now for my ex husbands actions, but its just getting rediculous now

darkangelism · 02-27-2007, 07:31 AM

yeah thats ridiculous, not your fault at all...its more her fault for raising a son that way.

megan · 02-27-2007, 07:57 AM

that is true, but you do get some mums like that, who think there kids are perfect and actually dont see what there actually like

Duke · 02-27-2007, 10:54 AM

Maybe now you know where your husband gets his ignorance from.

megan · 02-27-2007, 01:42 PM

that is true, his family are so weird, i never got on with them and they didn't get on with me...but i will never have to see them again

megan · 02-27-2007, 01:47 PM

im sorry about the language i used in the last PM everyone

Duke · 02-27-2007, 03:21 PM

You're fine megan, no need to apologize.

The good part is that you realize you're life is changing and I'm sure each day will get better and better because time is the "GREAT HEALER".

Star · 03-04-2007, 01:24 PM

you know what megan? the apple never fell too far from that tree. my advice to you is the next time anyone from his family calls you, politely tell them you don't want to talk to them, you don't want them to call you again and hang up. you don't need people like that in your life right now or ever. you left an abusive relationship, you don't need to be abused by his family.

remember that you are the better person in all of this. you did nothing wrong and your life will only get better as time goes on and you will get stronger as well.