Crush on friends b/f

Stone · 09-10-2005, 08:07 PM

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I feel like such an arse.. My friend well call her Carla has an AWASOME b/f who she treats like crapolia

For some reason we are all in eachothers DRAMA. They know Greg and my drama and we know theres. Last week Greg and I got in a fight and I left him at the club so Carla sent her b/f to pick me up.. we talked he told me I deserve better bla bla ( he's friends with Greg) but I really said nothing knowing I would jump on the opportunity to be with him IF HE WASNT attached to CArla

He just called, he know's Greg and I are fighting and I guess he and CARLA are splitting up. He is moving and called to see if he could borrow our U Haul. and we got to talking he told me that if the situation we're diffrent he would sweep me off my feet and treat me like a princess 8O I feel the same way but didn't let him know.

Why couldnt I have meet him as a single man :?

I don't believe in dating friends ex's and feel really bad for having a crush on him.. I hope one day I find a good guy :? :?

Vautrin · 09-10-2005, 08:11 PM

Why don't you believe in that Stone? You are now well into your 20's, so you don't have to abide all the highschool rules.

Unless there are major warning signs attached to him, don't rule things out.

Stone · 09-10-2005, 08:45 PM

My friend has a baby by him.. she just called me and told me that she is going out with her x husband.. I feel bad for her b/f

darkangelism · 09-10-2005, 08:57 PM

i think you need friends with no drama.

But yeah i dont think you should date this guy, at least not right away.

Weiser · 09-11-2005, 03:29 PM

As much as I am against cheating and getting with friends ex's....If I were in your shoes I would be verrrrry tempted.

Merika · 09-12-2005, 07:06 AM

I think since you and Greg just bought a new house..that you better hold on to what you have until you get your own financial self in order. Goofing around with someone else now would just add to the confusion.

I hate to say money/security first....love second.....but it's about all you can do with two little kids. I could be wrong...but I know what it's like to raise kids by yourself and with no financial help. Don't let yourself get into that position. It's just too d*mn hard.