being a hypocrite

darkangelism · 05-01-2005, 01:01 PM

I just realized that i do to others what i hate having done to me. I hate when my friends go out to bars or stuff and dont invite me, if there is no reason that they cant...i understand if they dont want me there or whatever, more like they forget. Then i realized i do it to my friends to when i go out.

Merika · 05-01-2005, 03:32 PM

We all do that. I don't know if it makes anyone involved a hypocrite though.....only that sometimes you just want to hang out with someone different.

Star · 05-01-2005, 04:06 PM

I agree with what merika said. it's not being a hypocrite, it's just the norm.

Duke · 05-01-2005, 04:57 PM

darkangelism · 05-01-2005, 05:04 PM

its just the fact that i get annoyed at others for something that i do back to them.

Duke · 05-01-2005, 05:06 PM

I don't know if it's being a hypocrite but it gives you little room for complaining, especially if their aware that your doing it.

Merika · 05-03-2005, 07:06 AM

I used to think it was boring to go out with the same people all the time.

Vautrin · 05-03-2005, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Merika

I used to think it was boring to go out with the same people all the time.

It is. Unless they are amazing people of course. And amazing depends on the people involved.
I am quite reserved, so I am not the most enjoyable company for a lot of people. But if we share a single interest, things change quickly. With one friend, who is an artist, we can talk for hours on end on art, and it never becomes boring.

Duke · 05-06-2005, 04:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Merika

I used to think it was boring to go out with the same people all the time.

Only if your reliving the same experience over and over. I have some really good freinds that I go out with once in a while and we always have a blast but thats because we mix things up a bit and also truly enjoy each others company.

Merika · 05-06-2005, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Duke

Only if your reliving the same experience over and over.

EXACTLY! Iused to hang out with four female friends. There is always the whiner, the crier and the one who wanted to bar hop amd me.....who would leave with someone else. After 6 months of this.....we ceased going out together.

Duke · 05-06-2005, 05:25 PM

I've been in cliques where every episode was a rerun as well. ThatÃƒÂ¢Ã¢Â‚Â¬Ã¢Â„Â¢s when you move on and bring fresh blood into the mix. You ultimately end up in a new circle with people who share similar interests and are happy trying new things.