On being a flirt

twinkle · 04-12-2005, 01:59 PM

I think I need your feed back - Stone, your input is most precious.

I'm a flirt. I've always been a flirt and deep down I know I'll always be a flirt.I do it consciously at time, other times I don't realise I'm flirting. I come from a Latin culture, I'm much more Latina than the French are, probably somewhere between Italian and Spanish tempermant.

So yeah, I've talk to a friend of mine and she told me she overheard some of my collegues talking about me. they do that a lot - talk about everyone behind their back, so I wasn't shocked.

Ok, apparently I came off as a flirt, 'cause I dared to talk more to 2 boys... I mean, you all know that I didn't feel at ease between them Frenchmen... I was bored and yes, I may have lightly flirted with ... some boys. Talking. No touching, to sexual innuendos, no nothing.

So you tell me, boys and girls, what's soooo inapropriate? I mean I didn't force no one into anything! Yup, I do belive they were a bit frustrated. I am sorry, I do not deliver the goodie bag. Plus... no one knows I broke up with my ex - I like it that way.

What's appropriate between school collegues? We were out drinking, joking, eating together, visiting together... right!

I wasn't expecting that. Jeez, the freaks! They said that I liked to seduce men. I sure do! Just as much as they like being seduced!

Damn bastards!

Star · 04-12-2005, 02:07 PM

I think they're just jealous because they can't get the attention that you do with guys.

I was always a big flirt. That's what got me the boyfriends that I wanted! I got hubby that way too. :wink:

There isn't anything wrong with flirting, especially when you're single. It's all part of the fun! I used to love flirting when i was single! It's a blast! They're just jealous twinkle. you got it and they don't. :wink:

twinkle · 04-12-2005, 02:59 PM

yup, that's also what gives me a reputation!

I mean, I was really bored. those guys weren't ever really cool!

Duke · 04-12-2005, 08:44 PM

I flirt too, it's natural and healthy IMO. So long as you remain faithful to your partner then there's really no harm it it.

darkangelism · 04-12-2005, 11:11 PM

its good that your a flirt, i like girls that are flirty makes them easier to approach

Duke · 04-13-2005, 12:09 AM

but not always easier to hook up with.

darkangelism · 04-13-2005, 12:21 AM

for me, no girl is.

twinkle · 04-13-2005, 07:06 AM

Duke... that's pretty much the accusation they were making,

Duke · 04-13-2005, 07:12 AM

Musta missed that one, damn I'm slow lately :oops:

I've really found no correlation between more successes with flirty women as opposed to less flirtatious women. It's pretty much a level playing field as far as I'm concerned.

Merika · 04-13-2005, 08:37 AM

Oh Twinkle....tell them to BITE YOU and go back to having fun! It's those quiet mousy girls who usally are the ones who put out....then they judge other girls from themselves.

Duke · 04-13-2005, 09:09 AM

I don't like mousey girls, they have the temperment of a badger.

twinkle · 04-13-2005, 09:17 AM

There'sz a party this Friday, as one of our friends is leaving, and I actually feel a bit uncomfortable going. I just know that everything I'll say, whom I'm talking to, the way I'm talking shall be scanned.

I wish I had a bf indeed so that I simply shut all the mouths up

!

Duke · 04-13-2005, 09:23 AM

I'm not busy this friday ;-)

twinkle · 04-13-2005, 09:27 AM

Alright, I'll give your the address - it's near Paris, really at a friend's house, and after that we might hit the clubs !

Duke · 04-14-2005, 02:08 AM

Should I dress haut?