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Old 05-03-2005, 11:00 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I am very upset. Andrea has told me that while she was working last night at Bennigan's Tavern she walked past a table where a guy grabbed her buttock.

I'm glad she slapped the guy, but now she is really shaken up. I would love to have a little chat with this guy myself. He is a regular at the bar and I told Andrea to give me a call if he shows up again.
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Old 05-03-2005, 11:25 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I hate guys like that, that happened to my friend and me and her bf were following him out of the bar to fight him before we decided it wasnt worth it.
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Old 05-03-2005, 11:52 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Andrea says she will not call me because she does not want me to get into any trouble. I suppose she's right. I wish these guys could be taught a lesson in common courtesy. I mean what excuse could anyone have for behaving this way?
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Old 05-03-2005, 12:01 PM   #4 (permalink)
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yeah she is right, its not worth getting in trouble over. I argree about wanting to teach them a lesson, if i ever had the chance to i would. I am very protective of my female friends, they expect it of me, if creepy guys are hitting on them or bothering them they get my to scare them off.
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Old 05-03-2005, 05:26 PM   #5 (permalink)
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That's something that's happened in bars for many many years. I worked in bars when I was younger both as a bartender and a waitress. Guys would grab my butt. I used to pour a bottle of beer over their heads when they did that. They were more respectful after I did that to them.

These are men in bars. They're drunk and can get out of control. Some guys just don't know how to handle their booze. This is just one of the reasons why I never dated anyone I met in a bar.
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Old 05-03-2005, 08:08 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I am sorry that that happened Star and I hope it made you feel great to pour beer on those idiots.
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It felt great!! the guy who thought was "cool" for grabbing my butt felt like a total loser after i did that. I never took any crap for men in the bars. If they belittled me by doing something so insulting like that, i'd give it right back to them. It didn't happen a whole lot because they knew their bounderies with me. They would be the ones to protect me in the end if a drunk was out of control.

I started working in the bars at 18 up until the age of maybe 21. I would never work in a bar ever again. I don't like to be around drunks.
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Old 05-04-2005, 03:48 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Above all things Rock....I don't think you should get involved in it. It's between this girl, the management and the offender. Bennigan's is a respectable eating and drinking establishment and I'm sure they have rules about groping the help.
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Old 05-04-2005, 11:39 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I mean what excuse could anyone have for behaving this way?
I think stupidity, ignorance and lack or respect pretty much sums it up. I feel sorry for any gal who has to endure this kind of torture.
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Old 05-05-2005, 06:11 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Did I imagine posting on this thread or was it eaten 8O ?
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you are imagining things, i dont remember you posting.
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Old 05-05-2005, 07:01 PM   #12 (permalink)
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lol! I definitely typed a post. Must have decided it wasn't worth saying.
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Either that or you lost it in an error page and decided to give up.
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