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01-04-2005, 07:52 PM
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I'd say it's the boob thing she's jealous of. if she made that comment, then she likes yours better then her own.
 Take that as a compliment. the next time she mentions your boobs being fake, just say why thank you! :wink:
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01-04-2005, 08:06 PM
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There may be many reason why she doesn't feel warm towards you which have little or nothing to do with you personally. You may remind her of or be a 'type of' someone she's once felt insecure around.
My Mom has a rule which is: When someone doesn't like you - kill them with kindness'. (Kind of a spin off of the same Biblical thought). If I care if a person likes me or not, due to working with them or having to socialize with them, I have done this and found it to work. No....you don't actually kill them....you win them over. Think of it as a test of character. If you WANT her to like you.....maybe send a note or a small gift thanking her for her hospitality and mention how wonderful her baby is. The end result is that you could make a lifelong friend. If you DON'T CARE if she doesn't like you..........send her a thank you note signed 'Thanks for nothing! Greg and Perky Jugs'. |
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01-04-2005, 08:15 PM
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Me too!
It's pointless trying to win approval from someone who doesn't like you. You've not treated her badly, so it's her problem. I've noticed that if someone doesn't like you, they get quite irritated if you are really polite to them, to the point of formality. Of course they can't fault you at all, maybe that's why they find it so frustrating! P.S. Duke, may we have a spell checker, please? |
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01-04-2005, 08:35 PM
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I've already tried the nice route. When I 1st meet her I brought her gifts for her unborn baby, then after we crashed at her house for one night durring the hurricane I sent a HUGE boquet of flowers thanking her, and this time I tried to compliment her several times and she didn't even react so I am not being nice anymore. She sucks I get along with EVERYONE! I can make a stranger my best friend I don't know what her problem is but I know it's not my fault now so I am not trying.
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