well my friends(the last girl i dated) boyfriend, didnt do anything for valentines day with her, i said happy valentines before he did to her and i did say it until 3pm. So she was mad and so i said he was a sh!thead and then he found out and we had a big fight over text messaging, and we worked it out, but i hate fighting.
I dont know about that, me and her say "i love you" to each other so me saying "happy v-day" is not unreasonable.
OMG... Men and women can't really be friends, not like that. There's usually sexual tension going on both sides or at least one side.
I used to think men and women could be close friends, but I get proved wrong time and time again. Friends don't say, "I love you" nor do they kiss each other with the lights down low, listening to Barry White.
You two are side 'booty calls' for each other, just admit it. You both are going to be lethal for each other's relationships if this friction keeps happening.
*Sigh* To be young again.
Last edited by IvyRose; 02-22-2008 at 10:07 PM.
Reason: Edited for typo
I'd really listen to what Ivy is saying because she's right on the money. Of course of it's the old "luv ya", kiss-kiss type stuff then it's not uncommon but if you actually say you love each other then that's really not normal at all unless your in a relationship that is.
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well we dont kiss but yeah it is a weird friendship, both of mine with the two girls are, and yes boys and girls can be friends, i have done it with my best friend in college and we were not attracted to each other and thats why it worked.
however in this case i wouldnt say we are booty calls, i havnt even seen her in six weeks, we just text and talk on the phone maybe once a week. and they both live near each other and go to the same university. But i see one more then once a week and the other barely at all.
You're saying that if this girl, who got you in trouble with her boyfriend, were to call you crying. Saying things like, "My boyfriend and I broke up," you wouldn't console her and it become sexual?
What she did to you was wrong. She wants attention from both you and her boyfriend. She's playing you both. I'm sorry you don't see that right now, but DA, women can be vicious in all sorts of ways.
Both of you broke up, the "I love you's" shouldn't keep being said. You live your life how you want to, I'm not here to judge you. You want to play the field, that's fine. I'm just afraid that this girl is going to get you beat up or hang your heart on a string for the wolves to gnaw at.
Women know women. Take advice from another woman. This girl is definately playing dangerously and she's not acting like a true friend.
no it wouldnt become sexual, at least i doubt it would, me and her only dated as rebounds for our exs, we never really clicked for it to work. Now my ex on the other hand, who is my "friend" it would and did when she broke up with her bf.
when i say older women i mean any women who is more then a year older then I am, so i dont mean old, but women your age are great, they are not crazy, but are still attractive and fun.
Anyway, my ex, not the girl in this thread the other one, was dating this guy and he cheated on her so i saw her that night and nothing happened, so boys and girls can be friends, well we did share a bed, but stayed fully clothed.
Hmmmm... So I guess real friends can lay fully clothed together on a bed.
Still not appropriate, young man.
Oh well, you're single. When a boyfriend comes to beat you up and breaks both of your legs, don't come running to me.
Next time, just tell her you sympathize with her problems and send her to the nearest phone for a therapist. If you were afraid she was going to hurt herself, real friends show each other the way to cope with their own problems, not stay up all night (or whatever) on the bed talking about what a jerk this guy was.
People cheat and guess what DA, people sometimes reconcile. That's where your legs may become broken.
Oh and another thing, sometimes women make their strained relationship seem worse than it really is to gain sympathy and/or get some 'strange' on the side.