I Dreamt She Came back....

Luba · 09-22-2007, 07:02 AM

and was keeping me warm by lying on top of my blanket like she used to do and purr. Yesterday I received a message from the SPCA asking if she returned. So naturally, I was so happy that she was back and I was going to return a incredibly grateful and exceedingly happy message to the SPCA that yes, she had returned. But it was only a dream....

Vautrin · 09-22-2007, 01:28 PM

Bit hard to interpret the dream, Luba - but it seems to suggest that you are moving forward in your grieving process.

Luba · 09-22-2007, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Vautrin

Bit hard to interpret the dream, Luba - but it seems to suggest that you are moving forward in your grieving process.

Thank you, Vautrin, for your comforting words, understanding, and continued support; I am so honoured to call you my friend!

Luba · 09-24-2007, 08:26 AM

Yesterday our wonderful little girl neighbour brought a black cat to the door figureing she found ours. It was devastating to us that it wasn't the right cat, but we're so grateful to the little girl to keep on trying...

Anyway, when I dreamt, I dreamt she brought the right cat....

Vautrin · 09-24-2007, 09:03 AM

Sorry to hear that she did not find your cat; but at the same time it is wonderful she kept on trying.

Hope you will find closure soon.

Luba · 09-24-2007, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Vautrin

Sorry to hear that she did not find your cat; but at the same time it is wonderful she kept on trying.

Hope you will find closure soon.

Thanks, Vautrin! I don't expect closure, I do not know what happened. I do hope we heal....

Takeit? · 10-02-2007, 07:39 AM

This may be digging up bones but here is my side of things,

Luba,

Animals are mysterious, Thats one of the best things in the world is not knowing what they are saying to them selves, But to watch them react and feel the same emotions that you feel.

Now to you,

Your cat, I feel that he/she is not at harm, When you picked your cat from all the other cats in the world. You didn't choose it, the cat chose you! He/she could have clawed, taken out your eyes! but, it didn't. As much as you want to think that your cat will possibly be back there is always one thing to think about!

You where a carrier! That cat chose you for life training so it could complete its real life goal. It chose you because you where one of the best choices for a trainer.

You cat is with some one who needs it more "sorry to be blunt", be it sick, Ill, injured maybe a victim of some sort of abuse. A kid for sure has your cat a young one who is struggling in his/her life. You cat is brining hope and joy into this person's life and that alone! should bring you great closer and make you happy!

I understand how sad it is to lose something that you love so much but you must realize like i have said before, The cat chose you, The human, The best possible trainer to fulfill his/her life's goal as part of the healing process for someone in need.

I hope this brings you one step closer to feeling at one with your self.

If you need anymore help on anything else always feel free to message me.

I may be new but i bring new hope.

Luba · 10-02-2007, 08:34 AM

I SO thank you for your beautiful and caring message, Takeit? I think I AM starting to heal, I feel it's happening because I am laughing a lot more which has been SUCH a mainstay in my life!

Along with my pet loss support group, the wonderful, loving people on Lifesupporters have listened to me, sometimes repeat my grief over and over, and they have been here for me every step of the way! I am SO grateful!

Thank you again for your kind concern...it touches my heart that you would send me the help that I SO much need! I will return again and again to your message so I can heal and go on with my life!