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Old 07-11-2009, 06:50 PM   #1
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How prominent is the use of profanity in your discussions? Do you also use profanity in much of your dialog or is it only used in punctuating messages laced with emotion such as yelling, defending yourself, etc.?

If you do use excessive profanity in your daily life, are you aware of it and are you trying to curb the behavior or are you just content the way things are?
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I use profanity a lot, especially when frustrated or agitated. Otherwise, it is almost non-existent.
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I don't get angry very often trying the positive approach, trying to think things through if it's even worth it at all to make a big deal. But, whoa, sometimes it IS a big deal, then not only does profanity occur, feathers fly, too!
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There are moments and days / people which / who gives me a good reason to use profanity otherwise it doesn't come naturally for me.
There were a couple of instances when I must have dropped something or caught by surprise that made me use a bad word in front of my daughter and she scolded me about it. So I make a conscious effort not to swear. I don't want it to become a habit because I don't want to be reprimanded by my daughter again
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I don't want it to become a habit because I don't want to be reprimanded by my daughter again
Can she get child support for you?

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imagine being scolded by your own daughter
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imagine being scolded by your own daughter
It's not easy raising parents.
No worries, sam, my Sons have surpassed me AGES ago and now I listen to them!

As for Profanity, I don't think I've used any of those words in the chaos of the last month. That's pretty good, I think! I'm actually very surprised that I didn't!
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Have you been meditating Luba? I am really glad to hear that you were able to handle the situation gracefully I think it takes a lot of discipline to be able to censor your words when having a bad day ( at least for me )
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http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8147170.stm - very interesting stuff.
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I saw that item on the News, too!
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It doesn't look cool coming from teens and children who happen to swear just for the sake of swearing it seems.
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