Who knows. It might work.
I find he's quite candid in his approach, begining with the admission that unless BOTH partners in the relationship are intensely committed to it, no counselling, including his own, is going to work.
Of course then one wonders why, if both partners are intensely committed to each other, then are they reading the book/watching the tapes?
Paradoxically, it seems his, and all other forms of counselling is best applied to marriages with mild to medium problems.
Anyway I've read the book and done the notetaking after Delilah had done the same. Got to the stage where we were supposed to spend 30 minutes a day for a couple of weeks staring into each other's eyes and exposing our rawest, truest feeling for each other.
Delilah never made a move to step into this, and neither did I.
Evil Spirits must possess us, and I'm afraid only excorsism will resolve our problems.
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